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Updated on Nov 19, 2019. Posted on Nov 2, 2019

Do You Have The Same First Date Red Flags As Everyone Else?

Is it OK to ghost after at the first date?

  1. Would you do a blind date, where you didn't talk to the person AT ALL until the first date?

    Would you do a blind date, where you didn't talk to the person AT ALL until the first date?

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  1. Is dinner OK for a first date, or is it ~too much~?

    Is dinner OK for a first date, or is it ~too much~?

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  1. Is a movie a good first date activity?

    Is a movie a good first date activity?

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  1. How about something active, like hiking or paddleboarding?

    How about something active, like hiking or paddleboarding?

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  1. Should you split the bill on the first date, or should one person pay?

    Should you split the bill on the first date, or should one person pay?

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  1. Is it a dick move to order something expensive if the other person is paying?

    Is it a dick move to order something expensive if the other person is paying?

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  1. Is it a good idea to talk about serious stuff, like if you want kids or not, on the first date?

    Is it a good idea to talk about serious stuff, like if you want kids or not, on the first date?

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  1. Would you kiss someone on the first date?

    Would you kiss someone on the first date?

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  1. Let's say you've never met your date before. How do you greet them when they arrive?

    Let's say you've never met your date before. How do you greet them when they arrive?

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  1. Is it better to have a first date on a weeknight or a weekend?

    Is it better to have a first date on a weeknight or a weekend?

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  1. Would you rather be the first one to show up, or the second?

    Would you rather be the first one to show up, or the second?

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  1. How long should you wait before texting/calling after the first date?

    How long should you wait before texting/calling after the first date?

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  1. Is ghosting after the first date OK?

    Is ghosting after the first date OK?

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