In, 1999, I worked at a formerly popular pizza chain as a delivery driver around South Dakota State University. I was newly out and figuring things out. My friend, straight girl, worked as an assistant manager and said I should work there. I got hired and was an above average driver.…
When I was about 15 or 16 years old, my parents decided to take my two sisters and I to the Steam Threshing Jamboree near Madison, South Dakota about 30 miles away from the farm I grew up. My Grandma dropped off Grandpa that day and came along as well.
So, here I am, a closeted,…
Being fat doesn’t make you stupid. Being fit doesn’t make you stupid either. Be happy with whatever body you have and strive to have the body you want.
I discovered the weight room and weightlifting. It helped me with my sexuality and it kept me sane when I was going through the ups and downs of my sexuality.
My Mom keeps a Christmas album and I saw these four photos of me pretty shocking. The upper left is me my Freshmen year in college (at South Dakota State University) closeted
What helped me with my coming out was working out. I started working out a year before coming out. It was something I learned that I was great at and it mentally cleared my mind and helped me focus on what is best for me and my life.
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