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    23 Products You’ll Probably Love If Self-Care Is Your Love Language

    The best relationship is the one you have with yourself.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. These glittery eye patches that'll make you feel like a *star*. They're packed with retinol and peptides that'll help reduce dark circles, so you'll look like you got a full night of beauty sleep (even when you didn't).

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    Get a pack of five pairs from SkinStore for $28.60. Use code BLACK to get 25% off.

    2. This aptly-named essential oil blend that'll help de-stress a tired mind. The combination of geranium, ylang ylang, and clary sage is floral, fresh, and designed to give you a moment of peace when you're feeling a bit run down.

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    Get it on Amazon Canada for $28.

    3. A plush hooded tartan robe that'll keep you cozy from morning till night. It even has pockets that you can use to stash your essentials (or a few holiday cookies).

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    Get it from Simons for $49 (available in sizes S/M and L/XL).

    4. A coffee-based body scrub that'll help you get your java fix.It uses ground Arabica beans, sea salt, and coconut sugar to slough away flakes and imperfections, and is gentle enough to use on sensitive skin.

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    Oh, and it's completely vegan, too!

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $18.22+ (available in two scents).

    5. This wearable acupressure tool that reviewers say has basically eliminated their chronic headaches and sinus pain altogether. Since it's wearable and completely adjustable, you can pop it on and go about your day — set it and forget it, baby!

    A top down shot of a person typing on their keyboard while wearing the acupressure tool
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    I've had headaches all my life and just accepted that ibuprofen was my new best friend. After trying this, I'm ready to break up with traditional pain meds and make the switch, because this lil' guy is no joke. The first time I wore it, my nagging migraine was gone in under half an hour.

    Get it from Amazon Canada for $29.99.

    6. This easy-peasy steeper that'll help you throw a solo tea party. Each one makes just enough tea for a single cup, so you'll never have to share.

    A person using the steeper to make themselves a cup of iced tea
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    Using it couldn't be simpler — just add your fave tea blend, fill with hot water, and pop the steeper over a mug. It'll filter out all the debris, and leave you with a mug full of hot, steaming relaxation. It's great for making iced tea, too!

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $20.

    7. This leave-on lip mask that'll soften and smooth your smoocher overnight. Reviewers call it their Holy Grail of lip care, saying it's eliminated dry, flaky lips better than any other product.

    Several jars of the lip mask arranged on a colourful background surrounded by candy and fresh fruit
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    With all the antioxidants this little jar is packin', you'll want to slather your pout in it every night.

    Get it at Sephora Canada for $26 (available in seven scents).

    8. A minimalistic (and super-soft!) duvet cover set that'll turn any bed into a dreamy oasis. The naturally wrinkled texture means you'll spend less time caring for your sheets and more time actually using them. Self love starts with being well rested!

    A set of fresh, clean sheets on a wooden bed
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    Reviewers love that it seems to magically repel pet hair, too.

    Get a set on Amazon Canada for $32.99+ (available in 10 colours, and sizes twin—California king).

    9. This handheld percussion massager that'll bust knots and aches like nobody's business. It has six speeds and six patterns, so even persistent pain doesn't stand a chance.

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    It also comes with five attachments, so you'll be able to target all their pain and tension with ease.

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $46.99.

    10. These magnesium-rich bath salts that'll help you recover from a long, hard day. White willow and arnica naturally ease muscle pain, while the eucalyptus essential oil will help to clear out your sinuses when you're feeling stuffy.

    A flatlay of the bath salts surrounded by leafy boughs
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    Get it at SkinStore for $11.44. Use code BLACK to get 25% off.

    11. An essential oil rollerball that's basically a PMS-fighting, fresh-smelling, migraine-busting, cramp-eliminating miracle. It's an awesome all-natural remedy for those days when everything sucks, and you just need a little pick-me-up.

    A person holds the roll-on between their fingers
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    I know it's ~technically~ supposed to be targeted at PMS symptoms, but in truth, it can be anything you want it to be. I've used it to ease cramps, relieve muscle tension, and as a drug-free solution to headaches. The blend of relaxing clary sage, zippy peppermint, floral geranium, and zesty lemon oil is a genius combination that not only feels great, but smells fantastic, too.

    Check out BuzzFeed's full review of the Blume Cloud 9 Roll-On (it's #11).

    Get it at Sephora Canada for $21.

    12. A gratitude journal that'll help you hone in on positivity. Designed to be done for just six minutes a day, you'll be able to squeeze in some gratitude between your morning shower and a frothy latté.

    A flatlay of the journal next to a bowl of blueberries and a croissant
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    It features guided activities, making it perfect for those days when you're feeling emotionally tapped out.

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $34.90 (available in four colours).

    13. A bathtub wine caddy that'll hold your Pinot while you're soakin'. When applied properly, this baby can hold up to seven pounds of liquid — it even works with mugs and bottles, so go ahead and get creative.

    A person sitting in a tub with a wine glass in the caddy
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    Reviewers say they use it to hold loofahs and shampoo bottles, too.

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $22 (available in six colours).

    14. These melatonin gummies that'll help you fall asleep, and stay that way, too. Reviewers love that they don't experience any side effects (like grogginess or dependency) after taking them.

    A person holding out a jar of the gummies while sitting in bed
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    They're infused with natural blackberry flavour and are completely gluten free.

    Get a jar of 50 gummies on Amazon Canada for $23.97.

    15. A cold therapy ice roller that'll de-puff your skin, smooth your pores, and help all your expensive skincare absorb better. You can even use it to help in the fight against headaches and migraines.

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    "It's great for cooling down when it feels like a sauna outside, it helps wake me up in the morning, and it saves me when I have a migraine. Unlike jade and quartz rollers, the roll-y part is made of gel, so when you pop it in the freezer it actually gets cold and stays cold for a loooooong time. It's also a lot larger than those doodads, so you can cover larger parts of your body, like your thighs and stomach (not just your under-eye area)." — Alice Prendergast

    Read Buzzfeed's full review of the LATME ice roller (it's #3).

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $15.97+ (available in six colours).

    16. This nail and cuticle treatment that'll keep your claws looking fierce, without any visits to your manicurist. Apply this protein-enriched product like you would a nail polish, and watch as ragged cuticles and weak nails become a thing of the past.

    A bottle of nail oil next to a fresh sprig of flowers
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    The combination of the protein with shea butter, jojoba seed oil, coffee bean extract, and citrus essential oils makes this a powerhouse product for anyone with weak, brittle nails.

    Get it at Skinstore for $20.02.

    17. This caffeinated butt mask that'll combat uneven skin like a BOSS. With ingredients like aloe, orange peel, and goji berry, these sheets only need ten minutes to detoxify and regenerate your cheeks.

    A photo of someone's bum wearing the sheet masks on each cheek
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    ~Slap~ it on and marvel at your bootyful behind.

    Get it at Skinstore for $12.87 (also available in hydrating and toning, firming and illuminating, and brightening and rejuvenating formulas). Use code BLACK to get 25% off.

    18. This chic bath pillow that'll upgrade your bathtime routine. Thanks to the seven suction cups on the back, you won't be slip-sliding around the next time you sink into the tub.

    A person off-camera holding up the floral-printed rectangular bath pillow
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    It's waterproof and easy to clean, too. Plus, LOOK HOW CUTE!

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $19.99.

    19. This jade roller that'll not only help in the absorption of all your skincare, but will feel really frickin' good. Is it just a gimmick? Is it a passing fad? I don't know, and I don't care, because trust me when I say that rollin' this baby has really improved my self-care game.

    The jade roller held against a floral background
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    I pop this little gem in the fridge for a few minutes, and then slowly roll it over my face in the morning and before bed. The smaller end tucks neatly under my eyes to help wake up sleepy-looking peepers. I've noticed that my face is less puffy (thanks, lymphatic drainage!), and that the effects of my skincare are decidedly amplified. Plus, regular jade rolling helps alleviate facial tension and relaxes those pesky, tight muscles.

    Check out BuzzFeed's full review of the Mount Lai Jade Roller (it's #6).

    Get from Sephora Canada for $30+ (available in two sizes).

    20. This bristly body brush that'll help you treat your skin to a gentle but invigorating rub-down. Thanks to little silicone nodes, you'll be able to gently exfoliate while also giving your skin a nice lil' massage.

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    You can use it wet or dry, so go ahead and bring it into the bath or shower with you. Don't be alarmed if you develop a slight rosy flush after using it — that's just the blood rushing to the surface of the skin.

    Get it at SkinStore for $20.59.

    21. This natural pillow spray that'll help you drift off to dreamland before you can even start counting sheep. It's infused with vetiver, chamomile, and lavender to lull you into a deeper, more restful sleep.

    A person holding up a bottle of the pillow spray against a bright background
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    A little spritz goes a long way, too!

    Get it from Sephora Canada for $34.

    22. A facial cupping set that reviewers say will give you spa-quality results. Regular cupping can help to decrease puffiness and improve circulation, so your skin will look and feel it's very best.

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    It comes with five cups, jojoba oil, and a silicone cleansing brush.

    Get the set on Amazon Canada for $19.95.

    23. And lastly, this waterproof scalp massager that'll feel like having a personal masseuse in the shower. The rubber tips gently vibrate to build rich shampoo lather, exfoliate the scalp, and help stimulate hair growth.

    A person using the vibrating head massager under the shower
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    I'd get some extra AA batteries here, so that you never run out of juice.

    Get it on Amazon Canada for $19.49+ (available in four colours).

    I'll be here for the rest of 2020:

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