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    16 Secrets And Stories From People Who Actually Worked On Or Participated In Reality Shows

    TV that's real(ly scripted)?

    We asked the BuzzFeed Community with insider knowledge of reality TV to share their secrets and stories. There were so many great responses, we just had to share more! Here are tidbits from your favorite reality shows you many not have known before:

    Disclaimer: Obviously, we can't 100% confirm these stories, but these people are supposedly speaking from their own experiences on reality shows, know someone who's been on reality shows, or simply has insider knowledge.

    1. "Someone my brother and I knew was on one of the earlier seasons of The Bachelor. She lasted a long time and the producers got a hold of my brother for the homecoming episode. He was was supposed to pretend to be a jealous ex and create drama when in reality, they never dated. Luckily, there was a massive snowstorm that weekend and it was called off. I'm pretty sure my brother would've regretted that the rest of his life."

    ABC

    2. And apparently, the secret about hometown homes on The Bachelor that was revealed in the first post* is true: "In Peter’s season, the house where Madi was interviewed by Chris Harrison in Auburn was the house I rented for my bridesmaids for my wedding weekend."

    Madi's "home" on the bachelor with an arrow pointing to it that says, "actual vacation rental"
    ABC

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    *Allegedly, if the contestants' actual homes aren't deemed nice enough for filming, the producers rent a home to film in.

    3. "My friends once had a segment for Gator Boys filmed on their property. The day of the shoot, they brought their own gator in one of the production trucks, and I think it had been fed, because it was calm. They filmed the guy in the water for about an hour before they took the gator out of the back of the production truck and released it into the canal with a rope tied so it wouldn't slip away. The gator was only in the water for a few minutes just to get shots of it in the water and then they did the capture and removal. They even placed the gator in the same truck in which it had been brought."

    The gator boys capturing a gator in a swamp with the text "fake capture"
    Animal Planet

    4. "I was on an 'Untold Stories' episode of Catfish Season 6, and it was all-around bizarre. My 20-minute segment on the show took four hours to film, so you can imagine how condensed it is. They got the gist of my story correctly, but for the most part they just pieced clips together to make the story as juicy as possible."

    A talking head on catfish with the text "four hours later"
    MTV

    5. "A friend of mine sat behind the Dance Moms and Cathy at one of the competitions (which was held at a local high school in Ohio). After the cameras were turned off, all the moms hugged Cathy and chatted it up with her. The entire rivalry between Cathy and the moms was staged, for the most part."

    cathy and another one of the mom's insulting each other with the text "fake feud"
    Lifetime

    6. "My relatives were on Island Hunters and they'd bought their island way in advance and went and saw two more islands they were 'interested' in. It was so silly how scripted it was."

    A woman contemplating an island she's already bought
    HGTV

    —Anonymous

    7. "A friend was picked to be on First Dates. They gave them loads of booze before they sent them to the restaurant, but after a while she got pulled aside and told her date had backed out. She was that told she could go to the restaurant and act 'surprised' that she'd been stood up, but then she would be guaranteed a date on another episode. Naturally, she didn't stick around to be stood up on national TV!"

    two people on an episode of first days with the text "tipsy"
    E4

    8. "I once worked for an aerial arts company. They specialized in silks, trapeze, and bungee dance and arts (I was just the comms person). I got an email from Britain’s Got Talent asking our most senior artists who were already internationally successful, producing shows, and performing, to audition and act as if they were newbies to the scene. It made me realize they probably pick who auditions and gets through. The artists at my company declined year after year."

    An aerial du0 auditioning for britain's got talent
    ITV

    9. "I once went with my sister to an America's Got Talent audition in Chicago. It was February, and they filmed in a poorly heated convention center (literally where they filmed the bat cave in The Dark Knight). They made everyone take off their coats for crowd shots because "this is a summer show so we don't want it to look cold." I was like if you don't want people to look cold, don't film in an unheated Chicago cavern in February.

    two audience members with an arrow pointing to them that says, "actually freezing"
    ITV

    10. "My cousin's wife was on America's Next Top Model and told me all sorts of horror stories about the producers. The contestants were told to only eat on camera, told to bring up sensitive topics, even told to ignore some girls just to make a storyline. Sad and gross."

    the models eating with the text "only with producers' permission"
    The CW

    11. "My cousin was on Maury. They get paid $500 to be on the show with boarding included, but he HAD to stick to the script or he wouldn’t get his pay out."

    a man on maury with an arrow pointed to him that says "getting paid $500"
    NBC Universal

    12. "When I was a researcher as part of the BBC Production Trainee Scheme, I worked on many different reality shows. One of my 'headachy' tasks was to remind all contestants — via email — not to wear designer or brand-name glasses, sunglasses, clothes, shoes, and bags during the filming, due to BBC's strict policy on advertising. Pretty amazing how many turned up wearing designer or brand anyway. Cue the headache part of this task: I covered it up with a tin badge, brooch, or sticky tape, or made them wear a borrowed jacket to cover it up. One inked over gold logos on his pair of glasses with a black Sharpie pen. One woman showed up in a tracksuit with the Gucci logo all over. I offered to swap our clothes, but she refused to wear my 'common as muck' outfit. She was given a choice: Swap or go home. She went home."

    a man on a tv show with the logo of his GUESS sweatshirt covered with tape
    SBS

    13. "On Jersey Shore, most of the people the cast interacts with (including hookups, girls brought back from clubs, and strangers met in bars) are staged and have already signed release forms. You can notice some of the cast overreacting to people showing up and also conveniently facing the camera so we can see their faces. Vinny is particularly bad at it, but so is Mike."

    a woman dancing with pauly d with the text "had to sign a release form"
    MTV

    14. "I worked as a production assistant on My Big Redneck Wedding. The whole thing was horribly staged. Yes, the people got married, but all the guests were random people from the surrounding towns. On my episode the 'stars' were drinking heavily all day, and encouraged to do so. They were even setting off dynamite behind their house, and the woman's poor daughter spent the day hiding inside, crying! No one on the crew cared, they only wanted the shot."

    Fake wedding guests and the groom drinking a beer

    15. "In My Kitchen Rules, they don’t let the contestants eat during the home rounds aside from the food that's going to be judged, and they’re not allowed to eat beforehand. They just keep giving them alcohol, and since the couple takes so long to cook the meals, everyone is dead drunk the whole night. They do this on purpose to cause drama."

    two my kitchen rules contestants with the text "drunk and starving"
    Seven Network

    16. And, "for Jeopardy, multiple rounds are filmed in one day. My cousin was on it, and she said contestants were instructed to bring multiple outfits in case they won, so that way it looked like it was multiple days. Other than though, everything else about Jeopardy is real."

    a jeopardy contestant in three different suits with the text "same day"

    Submissions have been edited for length/clarity.

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