saritafield

When my partner was strangling me, I thought, I'm going to die, so I'm going to still every part of myself and die in peace. I think me completely going limp at some point scared him enough to let go.

Have fun. Laugh, be playful, and be there for the ride. Noises happen, adjustments might be necessary, and communication is key. If you don't take it too seriously, you and your partner will have a lot more fun.

Therapist: Has he ever hit or hurt his mother? His sister? His boss? Me: No. Therapist: This isn't about his ability to control himself. Because clearly he controls himself if he doesn't act towards everyone the way he acts towards you. He gives himself permission to hurt YOU. ---This… Read More

This family has in a very intentional and concentrated way co-opted Black style while silencing Black voices. BOYCOTT

@amcotton73...I do not want to discount your opinions or your feelings... but I do feel that it is important to point out that most people do tend to want to avoid hurting others, even when it comes at an expense to themselves. Especially when it touches on other ethical obligations… Read More

This is something to be aware of when dating...antisocial personality individuals do exist and it's not a bad thing, but if you are not up for that ride, be aware of the red flags. Lying to others simply to get what you want from the relationship does not indicate empathy or care… Read More

I hope because it was going to well! Or that eight hours of that was some solid sleep? lol.

Plan for the first date to be short and sweet. An hour is a good amount of time. That way if either one is not feeling the vibe, the date can come to a natural conclusion. If you hit it off, you can plan the second date soon, or even just keep the first one going!