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    16 Masturbation Tips For Everyone With A Vagina

    Tips and tricks to help you do you.

    Masturbation is one of the best ways to learn more about your body and how you experience pleasure.

    So, BuzzFeed Brazil asked female readers to share their go-to tricks for getting ~in touch~ with themselves.

    1. Use more than one finger.

    2. Try penetration with your thumb while stimulating the clitoris.

    3. Use hot and cold lubricants, the latter of which can give you an icy sensation.

    4. Lie on your back, and put your legs in a butterfly position.

    5. Or lie on your stomach, put a pillow between your legs, and rub against it.

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    "When I was a preteen, I was scared of touching myself and didn't think I'd feel anything because it was just my own hand. So I put my pillow between my legs and would lie on my stomach, rubbing on it, until I came."


    6. Or, roll up a towel.

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    "Roll the towel into a tube, put it on a surface that makes it possible to 'ride' between your legs (a toilet works), and rub up on it."


    7. Touch other parts of your body.

    8. When your vulva is sensitive, masturbate over your underwear.

    9. Squeeze your clitoris with your index finger and thumb.

    10. Use a shoulder massager.

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    "I once saw a woman advising people to masturbate using one of those shoulder massagers. I tried it, and it does incredible things for anyone who doesn't have an actual sex toy."


    Important: Any object used for sexual purposes must be properly sanitized.

    11. Try an enhancement gel.

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    "When I'm more excited, I like to use an orgasm stimulant gel. It helps to intensify the massage effect that you can create with your fingers. I bought [a Brazilian brand] 'Orgasm' by Santo, and I think it's amazing."


    12. Lie on your stomach and press against your vulva with the base of your thumb.

    13. Try to synchronize your orgasm with the porn actors you're watching.

    14. If you've never used a vibrator, invest in one of the "bullet" types.

    15. And if you want to get advanced, bet on a "magic wand."

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    "I don't think they've ever created a vibrator better than this. It has several different types of vibrations and intensities."


    16. And finally, keep experimenting!

    This post was translated from Portuguese.