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    Updated on Apr 2, 2019. Posted on Feb 4, 2019

    35 Valentine's Day Gifts For Couples Who Have Been Together Forever

    "Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you." —Ancient Proverb

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    1. A box set of seven hardcover Jane Austen novels so they can indulge in some of the world's greatest love stories (other than your own).

    Amazon

    Promising review: "If you want to preserve classics and like to read with a cup of a tea and a cozy chair, these are for you. Simple cloth binding is enhanced with vintage-style decoration. Thick paper and good, easy to read print. These books are comfortable to read and look great on the shelf." —Sally Domingues

    Get it from Amazon for $98.99.

    2. A customizable coaster set designed to look like old-school Polaroids. Simply fit and place your own photos inside and voila! Old school memories in a *flash*.

    Asos

    Get a set of four gold coasters from Asos for $13 or white ones from Amazon for $12.

    3. A New York Times crossword puzzle book for flexing your combined vocabularies. You can finish each others' sentences, but can you finish each others' puzzles? Try the Monday puzzle book if you're just starting out and the Sunday puzzle book if you really want to put your skills to the test!

    Amazon

    Get them from Amazon: the Monday puzzle book for $9.48 and the Sunday puzzle book for $9.48.

    4. Fog of Love, a role-playing board game that lets you act out the trials and tribulations of relationship ~drama~ in exaggerated romantic comedy fashion. Mix things up a little bit without *actually* mixing things up a little bit.

    Walmart

    The game comes with a comprehensive tutorial to play through so you can easily learn the ins and outs of the rule book before being turned loose. And as if this game didn't sound fun enough, there are paranormal romance, it will never last, and trouble with the in-laws expansion packs!

    Get it from Walmart for $35 (originally $49.97, also available in same-sex versions).

    5. A beautifully illustrated write-in menu book so they can record and remember all of their impressive dinner party menus through the years. Never forget the coq au vin of 2007! So tender. So delicious.

    Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

    Get it from Amazon for $13.51, Barnes and Noble for $16.99, or a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    6. A leather messenger bag for carrying their laptop and work accoutrement in style. It's time for company-issued black polyester bag to retire anyway.

    Amazon

    The bag has two large zipper compartments and fits a 17.5 inch laptop.

    Promising review: "This bag is awesome. I looked for a week trying to find the perfect bag. Most were too small to carry everything I needed. I am able to carry my portable scanner, my surface pro laptop, two Bluetooth speakers, a hard drive, my daily planner, two other books, all my chargers and cables, and my work files, and I have room to spare. This bag is very well-made with high-quality leather. I am extremely pleased with my purchase." —The Man

    Get it from Amazon for $69.99.

    7. A personalized ring engraved with anything and everything they love. Whether it's your kids' names or the name of their favorite dessert, they're sure to cherish it.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "It has now been nine months and these rings are still in amazing condition. They haven't greened or gotten dull. I wear them in the shower and swimming, and no problems. They never come off of me, and I’d recommend to anyone. I plan on getting another one soon to add!" —M

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99 (available in sizes 3-13).

    8. A set of Rifle Paper Co. floral pencils whose floral flair is sure to inspire them to leave you little love notes like back in the day.

    Rifle Paper Co.

    Promising review: "I first fell in love with these pencils when I purchased them from a local bookstore. When I could no longer find them, I was relieved to see them here on Amazon. They are beautiful, and they write well. When you sharpen them, the lead doesn’t break or fall out of the wood like less well-made pencils. I plan to buy more!" —Gianetta Ellis

    Get a 12-pack from Amazon for $12.

    9. A rain shower head so they always feel like they're bathing at a five-star hotel. P.s. There's DEFINITELY room for two under there!

    amazon.com

    Depending on your current shower configuration, you may need a shower head extender to accommodate this piece.

    Promising review: "I have been looking for a replacement shower head for a while, and I could not be happier. Beautifully made completely out of metal unlike some of the other cheap plastic lookalikes. The rain comes out perfectly and consistently. Perfect for a long relaxing shower." —Patrick C.

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99+ (available in five shapes and sizes).

    10. A uniquely shaped wine decanter — you two didn't think wine could taste much better after switching from $5 to $10 bottles, but this gift is here to prove you both wrong.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "This wine decanter is exquisite. I bought it as a gift and can't wait to see their expressions when they open it. It is very elegant yet sturdy enough to be functional at dinner parties. I highly recommend purchasing this item. Also the packaging was excellent." —Dorrie

    Get it from Amazon for $27.98.

    11. A ticket stub diary to preserve memories of all of your favorite outings together. Now your kids will have to believe you both saw Black Panther five times in a row when it came out, you LITERALLY have the receipts.

    UncommonGoods

    Get it from UncommonGoods for $14 or Amazon for $13.46.

    12. A set of Table Topics for couples. It may feel like you know everything you could possibly know about each other, but these fun conversation starters are sure to give you guys some new #content!

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Bought this for my wife and I for Christmas, and I have to say is was a lot of fun! The questions are great conversation starters without being about topics that are argument starters. Some questions only take a minute, but others can kill 15 minutes or more. It's really up to you. Really what it boils down to is this: It's a time to put your phones down, turn off the TV, and interact with one another about something that's meaningful but also fun." —Ryan

    Get it from Amazon for $25.

    13. A Let's Stay Home soy candle that really gets your message as a couple across.

    Etsy

    Get it from TheBurningMagnoliaCo on Etsy for $10 (available in 14 scents).

    14. A sous vide because their culinary curiosity knows no bounds. This new tool is the key to perfectly cooked steak and...their heart.

    Amazon

    Place the sous vide in a pot of water and place vacuum- or plastic-sealed meat inside to have it heated to the exact temperature you want for perfectly cooked steak, pork, chicken, and fish every single time!

    Promising review: "This makes an eye of round roast as tender as a prime rib. Excellent product. Just plug the thing in, make sure your water level is good, and set it and forget it. This thing will cook absolutely perfect food every single time." —Leeway63

    Get it from Amazon for $79.

    15. A bathtub caddy so they can luxuriate in the tub with a glass of wine, a book, or even an episode of their favorite show. On V-Day you can even set this up to surprise them! *swoon*

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Amazing! It has elevated my bathroom to a spa! It really does work as advertised! It stays in place and is sturdy and as pretty as it is functional! You cannot beat this caddy!" —Kerri Boardman

    Get it from Amazon for $42.97 (originally 59.99).

    16. A new luggage set that's great on its own *or* with a note about the getaway you have planned. You're so romantic, I can't even believe it!

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Great suitcase! We brought ours to Italy and trekked across cobble stone streets and dragged it a HUGE distance from our hotel in Venice to the train stop in order to make it to our next destination, and they have held up very well through some rough treatment! They are also very light-weight for those who are flying and want to conserve poundage." —G J.

    Get it from Amazon for $139.99 (available in four colors).

    17. An Ember temperature control mug because you've been watching them put down a cup of coffee, forget about it, microwave it, and repeat ad nauseam for YEARS. There's a solution!

    Amzon

    The mug connects to an app that lets you set your ideal beverage temperature to an exact degree, and even alerts you when your drink has reached that temperature! It also comes with a charging coaster to keep the warmth goin'.

    Promising review: "I love my Embers. There's nothing like sitting leisurely with my coffee, reading the paper, and picking up my coffee mug 10 minutes later to enjoy perfectly hot coffee at my ideal temperature. The same with the Travel Mug, where 30 minutes into a commute, the coffee remains my ideal temperature. If you should ever have a problem, their customer care is second to none — quick, responsive and helpful. The companion app helps me set the perfect temperature and update the firmware. This is a very well thought-out and well-executed product and ecosystem, with equally great service, and an apparently a well run company. If you like your coffee hot, their motto says it all: Stay warm!" —YT Blue

    Get it from Amazon for $79.95 (comes in two colors).

    18. Touch screen leather gloves lined with a cashmere blend so they can not only feel like they're living the life of luxury, but *tweet* about their gorgeous gloves even while they're on their hands.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Like most other reviewers, I am EXTREMELY PLEASED with these gloves. They are as soft as butter and warm to boot! I am so impressed with these that I'm planning on purchasing another pair for my Mother-In-Law for Christmas." —Liz G.

    Get them from Amazon for $25.99 (available in sizes S–XL and six colors).

    19. A waterproof Kindle Paperwhite that's perfect for both everyday use and vacation! Whether they're caught in the rain on the way to the car or catching some pool-side rays on a romantic getaway, they'll always have their favorite books by their side.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Love this as an upgrade to my very old Kindle. It’s nice that it lights up but still is paperwhite. It doesn’t hurt your eyes or over-stimulate so you ruin going to sleep. Light and much more user-friendly than my last one. Excited for the waterproof-ness so I can take to pool and beach and not be nervous!" —Jamie G

    Get it from Amazon for $129.99.

    Check out BuzzFeed's ~deep dive~ on the new Kindle in The New Kindle Paperwhite Is Waterproof, And I'm Bringing It On Vacation.

    20. A golden set of measuring cups and spoons because making their signature chocolate chip cookies deserve a gold metal. This is like giving them *eight* gold metals (and is a sure-fire way to score more cookies).

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Happy with this measuring set. The cups come on a detachable ring, and the spoons come on their own ring, which make it easy to take them off and on for using and then storing. The color is gorgeous and perfectly matches the gold cooking utensils I bought from the same vendor. As for the quality, they appear well made, as they are heavier than other sets I’ve used. Thumbs up from me!" —Megan Harding

    Get them from Amazon for $26.55.

    21. A scratch-off map so you can document your many journeys together and look forward to all the ones you still have left to go.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "I love the map! It’s so fun to sit down with loved ones and scratch off where you have been! It also shows you there are a ton more places to go!" —emily wright

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99+ (available in two sizes).

    22. A Bodum french press because it's been 5ever since you bought your starter french press when you first moved in together. Time for an upgrade!

    Amazon

    Promising review: "I am so glad I purchased the Bodum Chambord coffee press! In the past I have 'gone cheap' only to regret the purchase because the quality of the brewing process was poor. The Bodum is made extremely well, with tight fitting screen and plunger parts so that you get coffee — not grounds! It is easy to take apart for cleaning, and I love the sturdy, tight-fitting handle. Quality product!" —AK Bookworm

    Get it from Amazon for $38.79 (available in 10 finishes and four sizes).

    23. A personalized whiskey decanter that has their name written all over it.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Very nice! Ordered and received this decanter in less than a week and it looks great. It came very nicely packaged as well so you do not have to worry about any glasses being broken!" —abigails

    Get it from Amazon for $44.99 (available in seven styles).

    24. A pair of cozy memory foam slippers to make lazing about the house on Sunday mornings together even more enjoyable.

    amazon.com, amazon.com

    Reviewers suggest going up a size!

    Promising review: "I have a very old farmhouse and the floors tend to get cold in the winter. These slippers keep my feet warm and cozy! They’re durable enough to wear outside too." —momof2

    Get them from Amazon for $16.59+ (available in sizes 5–12 and five colors).

    25. A sweet pair of XO earrings so they have a little smooch and hug from you wherever they go.

    Etsy

    Get them from fruitionjewelry on Etsy for $40.

    26. A reclining chair that's actually mad cute! Now your sweetie can kick up their feet without ruining your living room's ~aesthetic~.

    Wayfair

    Get it from Wayfair for $211.99 (originally $359.99, available in 24 colors and fabrics).

    27. A massage oil candle from Lelo to bring a little ~flame~ back in the bedroom. Soy wax, shea butter, and apricot kernel oil melts together into a pool of luxurious massage oil perfect for setting the mood for a ~sexy~ rub down.

    Lelo

    Get it from Lelo for $34.90 (available in three scents).

    28. A cooking class at Sur La Table for crafting the perfect date night *and* the perfect crème brûlée.

    instagram.com

    Learn anything from how to make fresh pasta to the key to assembling the perfect layer cake. Classes offered and availability depend on your location, so check out Sur La Table's website for more info!

    Reserve seats at Sur La Table for $75+.

    29. A Winc subscription so they can have wine delivered to their door catered *perfectly* to their preferences. For added gifting panache, throw a towel over your arm and have them taste a tiny sip of each bottle like a waiter at a fancy restaurant. Then they can have the satisfaction of slowly nodding their approval.

    Winc

    Get a gift card from Winc for $60+. When choosing your amount, note that subscriptions start at $13/month (plus shipping if you decide on only one bottle a month, free shipping if you opt for more).

    Check out a BuzzFeeder's full review in This Wine Subscription Service Will Change Your Life.

    30. A smartphone vase to make their bedside table a little more joyful. Now when their alarm goes off every morning they can wake up and smell the roses!

    UncommonGoods

    Get it from UncommonGoods for $32 (available in two colors).

    31. A Cuisinart waffle maker that will take your at-home brunches to the next level. Whipped cream hearts, activate!

    Amazon, amazon.com

    Promising review: "I hear an angel choir when I finally sit down to golden, crisp waffles. I had been craving them for months — not the thick Belgium ones, but the old-fashioned, round, thin crispy ones. This is easy to use and makes delicious waffles. I use the setting between three and four, and they come out perfect." —Kindle Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $26.95.

    32. An aerograden because, although they're are SO caring in SO many other ways, they have kind of a brown thumb. Help them cultivate delicious herbs — and boost their plant bb confidence — with this brilliant gift!

    Macy's

    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $89.99 (originally $189.99).

    Check out one BuzzFeeder's full review in Grow Herbs In Your Apartment With Zero Effort Using This Smart Countertop Garden.

    33. A subscription to Care/of that will provide them a personalized pack of vitamins every single day. You're in in for the long-haul, and you want their bones and joints to be too!

    Care/of

    Enter code "BUZZFEED" at checkout for 50% off your first order.

    Get it from Care/of starting at $5/month.

    Check out one BuzzFeeder's full review in This Personalized Service Actually Makes Taking Your Vitamins A Fun Thing.

    34. A Lapcos sheet mask variety pack so your honey can enjoy a nourishing honey mask and so many more!

    Free People

    The set comes with charcoal, honey, pearl, and milk mask, as well as a ~milk feel~ exfoliating pad.

    Get it from Free People for $15.

    35. A romantic anniversary book that contains every New York Times on that date from to day you were married until your most recent anniversary. Look back and remember when there used to some good news. Those were the days.

    UncommonGoods

    Get it from UncommonGoods for $99.95+.

    Have a great Valentine's Day, love birds!

    Gran Via

    The reviews in this post have been edited for length and clarity.

    Looking for the perfect gift for any occasion? Check out all of BuzzFeed’s gift guides!

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