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The metallic rubber tendrils measure 18 inches long.
Get it from Blissful Discipline on Etsy for $33.60 (originally $42).
Blissful Discipline designs hand-crafted impact play and BDSM gear, as well as unique leather alternative constructs.
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The flogger has 18-inch rubber falls and the spanking strap is 12 inches long, but we both know you're buying it because of the dinosaur handles...I mean, rawr.
Get it from Blissful Discipline on Etsy for $58.40 (originally $73).
Currently, a large portion of this shop is 20% off!
Promising review: "Beautifully crafted and solid. It's nerdy art and super fun all in one. Definitely looking forward to it's use." —jin ryan
Get it from Blissful Discipline on Etsy for $180 (originally $225).
Currently, Lovehoney is offering up to 70% off on Bondage items.
These restraints are 49.5 inches long, offering ample opportunities so let your imagination run wild.
Promising review: "These will have your S/O begging to be punished! Soft silky touch is always an extra turn on. This soft restraint won’t hurt your wrists or ankles, or however you want to be punished tonight!" —Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $5.99 (originally $9.99 and only black is discounted).
Currently, Lovehoney is offering up to 70% off on Bondage items.
The extra-wide, flat rope extensions are made of nylon and designed to prevent fraying over time. Convenient slide-to-fit loops offer easy in-and-out for the user and a center ring allows for the addition of more ropes, if that's your thing.
Promising review: "Myself and my wife thought it would be fun to try something different in the bedroom and we found this rope tie to be very fun, not too intense. She had the freedom to get out of it if she chose to, as it’s not too tight to get free. But she loved being dominated at a beginner's level. It's fun, we both would recommend this as a little fun, like sex should be between couples." —Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $12.49 (originally $24.99).
Currently, Lovehoney is offering up to 70% off on Bondage items.
Reviewers say it takes a little time figuring out the placement that works best for you, but once you've got it...it's go time! That being said, reviewers also agree that this clamp is better for teasing and foreplay stimulation, rather than wearing during penetration when things start to get wetter and wilder due to slippage.
Promising review: "This was our first time using a clamp of any description. It was a bit fiddly to start with and a bit of a passion killer, but once we got used to it, it felt amazing. When I reached orgasm it was intense. My hubby loved using it on me. He's also since used it on my nipples which was nice as well. It's soft, so doesn't hurt. I would definitely recommend, but stick with it if you are new to these things as it's worth it!!" —Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $5.99 (originally $9.99).
Use code BDSM20 for a 20% site-wide discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 p.m. ET.
Promising review: "TBH... A lot better than I expected. The leather is nice and soft, yet seemingly durable (so far at least). The silicone feels like platinum grade and has an ever so slight, velvety, soft matte micro texture. If In the spirit of a truly honest review, I'm not ecstatic about the choice of hardware used to fasten the gag to the leather straps. While I am glad it is removable for thorough sanitizing of the silicone, and I suppose it's easy enough to remove, its not as easy as it could be. Snaps would be better imo. Still nice for the $." —Ryan
Get it from Zalo for $65.
Zalo is a collection of ornate, high-end adult products with eye-catching aesthetic at the forefront of every piece. With details like gold plating, jewelry-grade manual enamel processing, real Swarovski crystal touches and silky food-grade silicone, every product is a feast for the eyes as much as it is your other senses.
Use code BDSM20 for an extra site-wide 20% discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 pm ET.
Get it from Zalo for $74.99 (originally $119.99).
Use code BDSM20 for a 20% site-wide discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 pm ET.
The leash is 42.5 inches long and the collar can adjust to 15.5 inches in width. Not to mention, you can remove the leash and wear this tulle and leather collar just as a fashion statement.
Get it from Zalo for $140.
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
Promising review: "It’s a present sent by my boyfriend. I really like its size and function. Good quality overall! 5-star rated! Will consider purchasing it next time." —Pattie Z.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $11 (available in black and pink).
Honey Play Box is small sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators, lesbian meme queens and sex toy connoisseurs passionate about bringing inclusive values to the adult industry. They believe pleasure, play, health, and accessibility are necessary for positive experiences of sexuality.
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
Promising review: "My girlfriend loves this. She said she was less inhibited when wearing this." —C.H.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $9 (available in black and pink).
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
The rope measures 16.4 feet long.
Promising review: "Feels good, works great, very long. All around solid bondage rope, great for beginners/casual dabblers." —Anonymous
Get it from Honey Play Box for $11 (available in red and black).
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
These nipple clamps are perfect for everyone from beginners to the pros with fully adjustable settings and rubber tips that offer a gentle squeeze.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $18.
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $19 (available in pink and black).
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $14 (available in pink and black).
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
This waterproof toy boasts nine vibration modes in the shaft and nine vibration modes in the tendrils for a power-packed playtime whether with a partner or alone.
Promising review: "Really awesome. It's not just a vibrator, but a whip. Me and my girlfriend enjoy this unique vibrator!" —Jodie G.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $48.
Use the code CANDLE at checkout to get one free $18 sex candle with every BDSM purchase.
This little kit includes a pair of wrist cuffs, a pair of ankle cuffs, one blindfold and one four-point hogtie base (without ropes), so you can up the ante on your partner play without breaking the budget. And all of the pieces are uniform with a unique textured vinyl design!
Get it from Honey Play Box for $49 (available in pink and black).
Use code BDSMDAY21 for the 20% discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 p.m. ET.
This rope is made of hypoallergenic and sustainable bamboo silk, so it's safe for anyone with allergies to jute or hemp. While this rope is sturdy and supportive...it's not recommended for suspension use.
Get it from Emojibator for $35 (also available in Unicorn).
Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia, from the brains of Joe Vela and Kristin Fretz. They have created a line of veggie-inspired vibes, emoji vibes, USB vibes, rainbow bondage rope, and accessories and put a twist on sex education.
Use code BDSMDAY21 for the discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 pm ET.
Get it from Emojibator for $9.
Use code BDSMDAY21 for the 20% discount from 7/23 until 7/25 at 11:59 pm ET.
The waterproof anal vibrator has 10 vibration modes and a convenient pull-out ring for effortless removal. The colorful Unicorn bondage rope measures 26.25 feet long for multipurpose use, and you make the choice on whether you want to purchase this kit with water-based lube or CBD lube.
Get it from Emojibator for $69+ (originally $100+).
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This spreader bar can be used while standing, bent over, or on your knees and spreads to a length of 25 inches.
Promising reviews: "Great quality product! My partner and I had a great time using this. It’s perfect for beginners and more seasoned play partners. Highly recommend it! The cuffs are padded so your wrists and ankles don’t hurt during play." —Anonymous
"My girl loves the restraints. They're comfortable and sturdy enough to give her a real feeling of helplessness. The bar is the perfect size, as well. Sturdy, solid, and comfortable. Couldn't ask for more." —Minos
Get it from Provacateur Creations on Etsy for $83.99 (originally $119.99).
Provocateur Creations is based in Ireland and specializes in hand-crafting adult products.
Currently, the entire shop is 30% off!
This hand-crafted cage is made of aluminum and approximately 4 inches long. Make sure to measure because the ring size is 1.77 inches wide.
Promising reviews: "The cock cage that we purchased is absolutely perfect. It fits like it was custom made. Will be making this place a regular for my needs." —andrea eaton
Get it from Provacateur Creations on Etsy for $27.99 (originally $39.99).
Currently, the entire shop is 30% off!
This chic set includes: one handheld whip, one extra long length of rope, an eye mask, one feather tickler, one ball gag, two fully adjustable nipple (or testicle) clamps, a leash, a neck collar, two wrist cuffs, two ankle cuffs and a four-way hogtie. The cuffs and collars are all adjustable as well.
Promising review: "The kit came very quickly despite COVID-19 delays so that was a plus. Other than that, my girlfriend and I absolutely loved it! I was worried the color might be too fleshy or even neon as a lot pink things can be online, but it was very cute! The cuffs are super soft inside, and they seem durable enough for light-moderate play. Overall a great kit for those just getting into it/adventuring!" —Adam Sarouji
"This is a really cute BDSM set!! You won’t be disappointed I promise, it’s comfortable yet sturdy to where you don’t feel like it’s gonna break on you. For this price, you can’t beat it you get a good deal! Most places charge 200+ for just a few pieces but this set has cuffs, a color, a leash, a flogger, and a hogtie thing that you can interlock the handcuffs all together! Only thing that sucks is shipping is slightly delayed cause of COVID-19. I’d say get it though! Don’t hesitate surprise your boo or explore BDSM by yourself cause of this. Also, packaging IS discreet even if you feel for it. Nothing makes a sound. 😉" —Aak
Get it from Provacateur Creations on Etsy for $41.99 (originally $59.99).
This set includes a remote-controlled couples' vibrator (Divvy), water-based lubricant (Jelly), adjustable cuffs that can be used over the door with the extra strap (Orion Cuffs) and a deck of truth or dare cards, which include pass cards to make sure things stay consensual and sexy.
Promising reviews: "Beautiful. Other than how they look, they are also comfortable. My first time finding restraints that are both stylish and comfortable." —Syn (on Orion Cuffs)
"HOLY f*ck. I absolutely love this and it might be my favorite toy at the moment. Sometimes the grip on the remote controller is a bit tricky because my hand is injured atm and it takes a bit to squeeze / the feedback on how hard you squeeze vs how much it vibrates is not always exact, but overall I love this toy for both personal use and use with my partner. So much fun to use, it makes me feel great, and would definitely recommend this!" —Alicia R. (on Divvy)
"Fun and sexy game! Love it. Definitely for couples getting to know each other." —mollie m. (on Truth or Dare cards)
Get it from Unbound for $114 (originally $149).
This set includes silicone cuffs (Cuffies), a two-in-one paddle and flogger (Tsk), a gag bar with tie restraints (Bit), a pinwheel sensation toy (Spike), PVC bondage tape (Tether) and truth or dare cards, which include pass cards to make sure things stay consensual and sexy.
Promising reviews: "I can imagine a partner having a fun time with this lil toy, but it's even fun to use for solo play! A nice and different sensation for me to play around with. :)" —Kay (on Spike pinwheel)
"This is amazing! Ball gags are always too big for me and metal ring gags hurt my teeth, this is perfect! I was afraid the silicone would be a thin layer over a metal bar but its not! The whole gag is silicone making it so soft and comfy. <3" —M (on Bit gag bar)
"This is the cutest paddle/whip. The tassels are fun for sensory play but provide a nice lil sting if you want to get rougher. Honestly the tassels are also fun to just play with. All around 10/10" —Rachel (on Tsk)
Get it from Unbound for $99 (originally $123).
This set includes Unbound's popular and powerful wand vibrator (Ollie), a gag bar with tie restraints (Bit), water-based lubricant (Jelly) and PVC bondage tape (Tether) that's easy to remove.
Promising reviews: "I have an extremely sensitive clit, but this is STILL, with all its power, my fave. Variety of vibe patterns and strengths. Makes me feel incredible." —L. (on Ollie wand vibrator)
"The tape was super easy to use! My partner really enjoyed themselves and stayed completely comfortable yet restrained the entire time. If you like using duct tape or other around the house items, switch to this! It’s fantastic." —Lauryn A. (on Tether bondage tape)
Get it from Unbound for $115 (originally $140).
This set includes a 14-karat gold-plated nipple and clitoral clamp, a two-in-one paddle and flogger (Tsk), a pinwheel sensation toy (Spike), water-based lubricant (Jelly), a double-ended glass dildo (Gem) and a tapered silicone plug with a flared base for easy removal (Romp).
Promising reviews: "I’m very picky when it comes to internal toys but this is so smooth and the size is so perfect for me. Plus it has multiple functions and is very easy to clean. Also very pretty to look at!" —Rachel (on Gem dildo)
"First time using a butt plug and it’s SO easy to use and feels amazing! Have just used it with myself for masturbating but I’m going to try it with my boyfriend/he wants to try it too! 10/10" —Z (on Romp butt plug)
"It takes a bit of time and a bunch of courage to get the clamps on initially but I'm assuming that will get easier as I use them more. The clamps and chains are absolutely gorgeous and I want to wear them under everything, all the time." —Lauren C. (on nipple and clit clamp)
Get it from Unbound for $110 (originally $143).
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