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1. The Fleshlight Turbo Thrust masturbator is designed to be as close to legitimate oral sex one can get with a toy — it boasts three entry points that mimic lips, tongue, and the throat. FYI, lots of reviewers commented on the realistic sounds it makes, so probably best to use this one with discretion.
Promising reviews: "Wow, this sleeve really is intense. The entry is amazing, and then, you get inside and grips you, and you think, wow, this can't get any better, and then, you reach the third chamber, and BAM! The texture blows your mind and your load. Needs more than a 5-star rating." —Chance R.
"This is the best one yet. The stimulation you get from this is incomparable. Great investment for some alone time. When you make adjustments to the suction, that's when it gets real." —Andy J.
Get it from Fleshlight or Amazon for $69.95.
2. The Pixie clitoral vibrator by Sweet Vibes boasting 10 powerful vibration modes to explore through its flexible wings on any of your erogenous zones.
3. The Whim by Pelle, a unique silicone grinding toy that offers broad stimulation with two dual-sided designs — one with waves and one with grooves — and versatile use for grinding, rubbing, and definitely exploring.
4. A palm-sized vibrator that can also l-l-l-lick you from your head to your toes, but no really — this toy has a "tongue" that has nine vibrations and nine licking motions for dual stimulation.
5. A strapless strap-on so you can do away with the fuss of buckles or straps. And a remote control allows one of you to ~literally~ hold the power of nine vibrating modes for both ends in your hands. Say it with me: simultaneous orgasms.
6. A submersible Satisfyer Pro 2 for those discreet shower sessions in case you're looking for those oral sensations but want to avoid any pillow talk.
This clitoral stimulator has innovative air pulse technology that creates no-contact sensations of suction and pulsation — did I mention there are 11 intensities to explore?
Promising reviews: "This has made me squirt twice, something I had never done before. Coming from someone who has had a difficult time achieving the big O, this is a must for anyone and everyone." —Amazon Customer
"The only thing this product has taught me is that men are useless. I've never squirted before, and within minutes, I was squirting everywhere. I am ready to go again. Is it possible to be addicted after one use?" —Alex
Get it from Amazon for $45.95 (available in rose gold and purple).
7. A silicone Fin vibrator from Dame because it'll transform your fingers into all-powerful orgasm machine. Not to mention this is a great way to make keeping your hands warm fun.
8. A set of three anal plugs with different shapes and sizes that are ideal for beginners who want to explore penetration through the backdoor.
Choose your favorite: the seductive spiral, the narrow bulbs, or the classic graduated bulbs? Convenient retrieval loops offer easy removal.
Promising review: "These were great for my entry into anal play, I think the material and size were great with not having much experience. The purple one felt incredible for both my partner and I when he was penetrating me vaginally at the same time. All in all led to a very fun night." —Paige
Get it from Amazon for $19.95 (available in black and pink/purple).
9. A flexible rabbit-inspired vibrator that moves with you and keeps constant contact with your clit while still hitting your G-spot.
Promising reviews: "This soft velvet silicone vibrator, O.. M.. G!! This toy was the first to make me make MYSELF squirt! The curved made of this toy hits that GSpot with clitoral stimulation. I have actually used this until it GAVE OUT!! 😫 Love Love Love this ☝️!" —LoveDickson1203
"For years I’ve struggled with finding my own comfort for which stimulation was best for me and could never achieve the big O. The more time you spend with it the better you’ll understand what works for you! I'm now at the point where this is my go to toy to reach my O’s every time I use it!! Not loud but still some noise, charging doesn’t take too long, and the Bluetooth connection makes it fun if you want to involve a partner in a session. Also make sure you have a towel when using it!" —Bex
Get it from Lovehoney for $149 (available in three colors).
10. A sleek and powerful wand vibrator in case you want to up the ante on your partner play with up to 50 vibration combinations and a versatile waterproof design.
11. A rainbow striped realistic dildo that's 8.14 inches long with a gently curved shaft, 6.22 inches of insertable length, and a suction cup base, so you could technically use it any and everywhere.
12. A dual stimulation rose vibrator, affectionately referred to as the "Soul Snatcher" by reviewers. The egg lets you get a little internal action, while its nine-speed tongue petal can stimulate your clit, nipples, and soul (apparently).
Promising review: "This li'l thing was amazing! I really enjoyed it, and let me tell you, I was surprised, and totally not prepared. Sixty seconds and the third setting is all it took, and a waterfall erupted. 💦 Lol I was shocked, and most of all, ready for a challenge because I knew damn well I could do more than 60 seconds. Wrong again! Went down to setting 1, and still couldn't hang, 🥴 so I gave it rest that night, tried again the next day, and this time, I said let me play around with it. Baby, one towel is not enough... 💦💦💦💧get three lol! You gotta make sure that hole is completely covered, not a single crack, because of course, you won't feel a strong licking if there's a crack." —Funmilayo Akintunde
Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
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13. The vibrating Snug N Tug that combines the best of both worlds with a weighted plug and vibrating cock ring delivering incredible sensations down below.
14. A novelty Emojibator vibrator that's as hilarious as it is functional — a perfect gift for yourself or anyone to tell them to go fuck themselves, literally.
15. A powerful miniature wand vibrator created with supple silicone for a soft-touch feel and 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge.
Promising review: "Prior this I had a beginner vibrator one with the little butterfly thing to stimulate the 'spot.' I didn’t really use it often and it didn’t yield results. I just figured handling business wasn’t my thing. THEN I CAME ACROSS this Shibari Mini Halo. Y'ALL. ITS SO POWERFUL, pure ecstasy. I’m having orgasms after orgasms in minutes. This thing is the real deal, so much so that I can’t wait to come home from work to it. I HIGHLY recommend to all, I myself will be gifting this to all of my girlfriends for Christmas this year. It’s life-changing, I’m literally so shook. This is the best purchase I’ve ever made for myself!!!! Do yourself a favor a buy one of these. Ladies thanks to this magical tool we are no longer entertaining mediocre men for the potential of a nut. This magic stick will 100% do the trick 😏 Update as of four months later — still works great, have had no issues charging, cleaning or playing with it! Extremely happy with my purchase :)" —GABZ
Get it from Amazon for $18.95+ (available in seven colors).
16. The Puff by Unbound, a palm-sized compact suction vibe with five pulsation intensities that'll make you question why you don't have a suction toy already.
17. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe designed specifically to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations.
You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.
Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight, and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long-distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP
Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $119.
If you're only interested in putting a ring on *it*, then definitely check out this round-up of cock rings to introduce into your play.
18. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that satisfies with 36 different vibrating combinations and dual motors for simultaneous external and internal stimulation.
This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?
Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie
"I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. Me and my husband love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa
Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99.
19. A reusable Tenga Spinner masturbator, which comes in an assortment of styles, each with its own unique internal texture that spins around your shaft as you stroke for a lifelike squeeze.
20. A classic rabbit vibrator by PlusOne with 10 vibration settings and dual motors, so you can feel everything in the shaft and external tip.
21. A compact silicone finger vibrator in case physical touch is your love language and you want to add a little oomph to your play with 10 vibration modes controlled by a single button.
22. A waterproof clitoral suction vibrator that has innovative technology to stimulate your clit without direct contact.
23. The OG Magic Wand that's been delivering *relief* to loyal users for decades with two rumbly speeds and a simple single switch.
The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. The same beloved classic is now available in Plus (an upgraded, corded version with multiple speeds), Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds), and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).
Promising reviews: ""Lets just say, use a towel under yourself if you're using it for 'personal' relief 😉. It also works for massaging out knots in other spots, too." —Kiri Minney
"So, bought it to use on my wife. Well, 30 seconds later, I realize that I’m gonna need a towel, and now, a new mattress." —Chris T.
Get it from Amazon $56.99+ (available in four styles).
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24. A vibrating bejeweled butt plug that you can wear to add a little bling in the bedroom or up the ante and explore distance play with its 30-foot remote control range.
25. A curvaceous stainless-steel wand by Njoy boasting 8 inches and two bulbous ends to massage internally and externally.
Promising review: "Holy buckets of pussy juice! I had an experience with a lover who made me squirt. I was mortified! But then I began to think...what if I had been able to squirt my whole adult sexual life and never tapped into my own G-spot potentials?! I googled 'toys that make a woman squirt' and the Njoy wand rose like the Excaliber, shining and majestic. I read the reviews, clicked "buy now" and squealed with delight when it arrived. It's heavy...only downside. Other than that...it has really intensified my sexual experiences...mostly with myself. I recommend this toy to all women. Harness your inner flow ladies!" —River Luver
"Guaranteed to squirt with this thing. No other review needed!! I call it the THUNDER." —Heaven Sent
Get it from Amazon for $72.
26. A luxury external vibrator featuring a vibrant hue and palm-sized, contemporary pebble-shaped design that embraces your curves, so you can guide it all over your favorite erogenous zones.
27. A rose-shaped clitoral stimulator equipped with 10 powerful vibration functions and a splash-proof silicone design, just in case things get a little...wet. 💦
Enough people asked me, a sex toy writer, about the Rose that I finally decided to try it. Um, this thing is POWERFUL. The Rose is very easy to hold in the palm of your hand or place in your panties if you wanted. I really enjoyed it, and it definitely delivers a lot of squirm for its size...10 functions is more than enough. 😅 I would encourage using a water-based lube liberally around the opening of the toy, which is what I did, so the pulsation intensities aren't too much for the sensitive clit. Also, clean it thoroughly with a toy cleaner or antibacterial soap — those little petals can be difficult.
Promising reviews: "This is the first and only toy that has made me squirt! I didn’t know it was possible!! Gift yourself, and all of your girlfriends. It’s a must-have." —Flowerchild
"I never write reviews… But this truly got the job done!!! When I tell you it took less than five minutes! I definitely underestimated this toy. You really need this; it’s a game changer!" —Emily B.
Get it from Peepshow Toys for $41.99 (available in red and pink).
Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.
28. A vibrating anal plug that'll rock your world with its graduated design and seven vibration modes.
29. A powerful rabbit vibrator that delivers unique kneading and slipping external stimulation in case you're looking for something simple to spice things up.
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This dual-stimulating silicone toy offers 10 powerful vibration modes and 5 inches of insertable length to reach that sweet spot.
Promising review: "So I usually use toys with my husband. I’ve had a few of these and they just don’t do the job, but this one is just perfection. It has me squirting and orgasming within minutes, especially when my husband is holding it for me. So cheap and the best one I’ve ever had with my husband. The only slight problem is that it’s a bit loud so it’s very hard to use when the children are around." —Angel
Get it from Amazon for $32.99 (available in purple and teal).
30. The Arcwave Ion, a one-of-a-kind masturbator by the makers of the Womanizer clitoral vibrators that uses the same famous Pleasure Air technology to deliver pulsating stimulation to the tip of your penis. Your dick will be like "Wow" after a couple rounds with this one.
This masturbator is designed with waterproof silicone, which offers effortless cleaning before and after. It also includes a convenient charging station that also quick dries your toy between uses. FYI, the website states it takes at least 5 uses to get the hang of the Arcwave Ion, so make sure you test it thoroughly.
Promising reviews: "Unlike a fleshlight which just pulls on your dick (I can do that myself thank you very much), the Arcwave sucks away at the head of your dick for an altogether different kind of orgasm you can't get anywhere else. It's truly a new kind of male orgasm with a slooow buildup leading to a really explosive release. It's certainly different than anything I've experienced before. I f*cking LOVE the Arcwave." —Alan P.
"My boyfriend loves it! Apply a little lube, turn this bad boy on to full blast and stand back folks — it's gonna blow!" —CharlotteXOXO
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