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    36 Quiet Sex Toys For Anyone Looking For Discretion

    Hot take: there's no such thing as a silent sex toy. But reviewers say these are quiet enough for you to get off with discretion.

    1. A minimalist vibrator that boasts three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe includes a convenient canvas carrying bag for when you eventually decide to take it on the go.

    2. The 9-inch Nirvana wand by Bellesa just perfect for enhancing your solo (or partnered) play with its seven vibration modes, a waterproof design and ergonomic handle.

    Models holding purple wand vibrator

    3. The scintillating Satisfyer Pro 2, boasting 11 intensities of no-contact clitoral stimulation, so you can ride wave after wave of pleasure.

    4. A vibrating anal plug that'll rock your world with its graduated design and seven vibration modes.

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    5. The Starsi vibrator, created with supple silicone and a unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.

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    Cute Little Fuckers

    Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.

    Promising reviews: "There is a different feeling from each point of the star, and the center works well too! Another review pointed out that this is not the most powerful vibrator out there, which is true. But I happily contend that it's one of the best vibrators available! It's unassuming, quiet, and easy to use with toys or a partner. And I LOVE that the vibrator motor can be replaced. Big fan. :)" —A L

    "I love the way I can read erotica and grind on Starsi! I use a hitachi regularly and I would say that for me Starsi is a fun toy to edge myself, but I can eventually go over the edge just grinding after a while. The little ends feel really nice for sensation play as well. Also Starsi is so quiet!" —Cassidy

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and rose).

    Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

    6. The extra-sleek and ergonomic Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame designed with waterproof silicone and five powerful speeds, so you can enjoy pinpointed clitoral stimulation.

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    7. A curvy rabbit vibrator with a slender shaft to slip inside and unique rabbit "ears" that knead and massage your clitoris. Yeah, pretty sure you need this.

    8. A wearable couples' vibrator boasting a flexible design with a thin internal stimulator to go inside you alongside your favorite penis or dildo and a bulbous stimulator specifically for your clit.

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    9. An air pulse suction toy capable of making your body respond to indirect stimulation in ways you can't even imagine.

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    10. A slim silicone vibrator designed with a gentle curve to specifically reach your G-spot and blow your mind with 25 vibration modes and frequencies.

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    11. A silicone Fin vibrator from Dame because it'll transform your fingers into all-powerful orgasm machine. Not to mention this is a great way to make keeping your hands warm fun.

    12. The Diosa by Bellesa, a classic rabbit vibrator boasting curves for days and seven vibration settings delivered through a dual-action motor for toe-curling, body-quaking, and swearworthy behavior.

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    This vibrator is 1.27 inches wide with an insertable length of 4.25 inches to help you reach those peaks. 🏔 

    Promising reviews: "I've made a lot of orders online through all of quarantine. A lot of retail therapy. This is *easily* the best purchase I've made. Hands down. Previously was using a ~$40 vibrator. It doesn't even compare to this. I really have no use for that one after using this. It is mind blowing. 11/10 would recommend to literally anyone. Considering an upgrade? Get this 100%. Zero regrets. Do you feel like this might be too much to spend on a vibrator? It's not. Invest in yourself. You will be so glad you did. As a single woman with two housemates and questionably thin walls, I find this is whisper quiet. It's pretty, easy to use, but, most importantly, *mind blowing*." —L.

    "I didn't come into this purchase as a complete novice, having used other "rabbit" type toys in the past. However those were often bulky and loud. The Diosa is the opposite of that; she's quiet, beautifully shaped, and hella powerful (I promise I'm describing the toy and not this author ;) ). The ears are not the most intense part of the toy, however coupled with the shaft vibrations, it's been very effective and enjoyable. The ears and the shaft must be used in tandem (at the same vibration/pulse setting) unlike some other toys where you can just use one or the other; this is in no way a drawback for me but wanted to flag for other customers." —Jess

    Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $129 (available in black and purple).

    13. The Empress 2 clitoral suction vibrator by Vush, beloved by reviewers for its waterproof design and 40 potential pulsation and vibration combinations to explore.

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    Vush

    Promising reviews: "Small enough to perfectly fit in your hand and very travel-friendly! Super quiet (minus the intense noises coming from yourself ;]) and well worth the money spent." —Leah D.

    "I'm impressed with The Empress. If you're looking for something with no noise, get this baby!! Great product!" —Vianna H.

    Get it from Vush for $160.

    Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.

    14. A petite precision bullet designed with silky silicone and seven vibration modes to tickle your fancy all over.

    15. A palm-sized vibrator that can also l-l-l-lick you from your head to your toes, but no really — this toy has a "tongue" that has nine vibrations and nine licking motions for dual stimulation.

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    16. A dual-stimulating vibrator with 10 vibration settings and 11 intensities, not to mention innovative suction technology that stimulates your clit all the way to nirvana.

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    17. The Puff compact suction vibrator beloved by beginners and more experienced 'bators who enjoy riding the five intensities to climax over and over again.

    18. The Pixie clitoral vibrator by Sweet Vibes boasting 10 powerful vibration modes to explore through its flexible wings on any of your erogenous zones.

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    19. A luxury external vibrator featuring a vibrant hue and palm-sized, contemporary pebble-shaped design that embraces your curves, so you can guide it all over your favorite erogenous zones.

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    20. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa AirVibe, boasting a waterproof design, over 1,500 reviews, and 15 intensity levels of dual stimulation.

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    21. A precision bullet vibrator by Vush that's both pretty and powerful with 25 vibrating combinations and a gently flexible design.

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    22. A classic rabbit vibrator boasting powerful dual motors and a titillating heating function that gets up to 107 degrees F to satisfy all your needs.

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    23. The Pom vibrator by Dame, which is designed to deliver broad or targeted stimulation with its flexible design that fits effortlessly into the palm of your hand.

    24. A waterproof clitoral suction vibrator that has innovative technology to stimulate your clit without direct contact.

    Model holding black Womanizer Pro 40 vibrator next to thigh

    25. A waterproof Finger Pro vibrator from Bellesa for all my acoustic masturbators interested in amplifying the action. It features a flickering tongue with 10 intensities for your clit and a convenient wearable strap for my left- and right-handed babes who enjoy the rush of having a lot of power in their hands.

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    Promising reviews: "Absolutely incredible. Fastest orgasm ever and it’s super quiet which is especially nice when living with roommates" —Sophie

    "Okay so let me start off by saying the first time I used it I was like ehh it’s okay buuuut I tried a second time and I figured out how to position it to hit the exact spot I needed. Let me tell you this thing is quiet and will have you squirting. Would deff recommend!!" —Angelique

    Preorder it from Bellesa for $59 (ships in 3–4 weeks).

    26. A novelty Emojibator vibrator brilliantly designed to be both hilarious and fuctional, for anyone who wants to go fuck themselves, literally.

    27. A discreet air-pulse stimulator equipped with pressure-wave technology and comes in a discreet travel-size case, so it's a perfect tag-along to that cabin getaway you've been waiting for.

    28. The curvilicious Arc G-spot vibrator by Dame designed with a clit-stimulating ridge, five intensities, and five patterns to keep you buzzing with pleasure.

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    29. A mellow orange curvy vibrator with a unique floral textured bulb to stimulate you internally or externally and share all the good vibes.

    30. The Aurora Vida from Bellesa, which has seven vibration modes and a 6-inch insertable length that effortlessly reaches your G-spot...trust me, I've tried it and love it.

    31. A sleek and curvy G-spot vibe elegantly designed to flex with your body and reach all the right spots inside and out.

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    32. A Piggie Puff air pulse vibrator that'll make you squirm and squeal with its 10 pulsation frequencies and waterproof design.

    Pink pig-shaped suction vibrator

    33. A Diskreet Vibe by Bellesa ready to rock your world with a round, waterproof design and five powerful (but quiet) vibration patterns radiating from its simple silicone fin. Perfect for anyone trying to enjoy some good vibes that won't disturb roommates or neighbors.

    34. A couples' remote-controlled vibrator designed to be worn effortlessly and deliver dual-stimulation, so you and your S.O. can spice things up in your intimacy with the simple touch of a button.

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    35. A soft and sophisticated vibrator that doesn't play around when it comes to stimulating your G-spot. A flexible and textured 1.34-inch bulb shivers with seven vibration modes that you can pinpoint with precision using its slender 6-inch handle.

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    36. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa Pebble, which may be pretty in pink but packs a punch with its five vibration modes and five suction intensities.

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