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Do You Have The Same Opinions About Love As Everyone Else?

How much of what people often say about love is actually worth listening to?

  1. 1. Is there such a thing as "love at first sight"?

    Is there such a thing as "love at first sight"?

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1. Is there such a thing as "love at first sight"?
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    No, you cannot develop feelings like that for someone so quickly
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    No, but you can have lust and attraction at first sight that eventually develops into love, though.
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    Yes, absolutely
  1. 2. Does every couple have a "settler" and a "reacher" (one person who is far more physically attractive and settling for someone, and another who is punching above their weight in the looks department)?

    Does every couple have a "settler" and a "reacher" (one person who is far more physically attractive and settling for someone, and another who is punching above their weight in the looks department)?

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2. Does every couple have a "settler" and a "reacher" (one person who is far more physically attractive and settling for someone, and another who is punching above their weight in the looks department)?
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    Yeah, I think generally that's true
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    No, I think people mostly date within their own leagues
  1. 3. Does a successful relationship require one partner who is more dominant, and another who is more submissive?

    Does a successful relationship require one partner who is more dominant, and another who is more submissive?

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3. Does a successful relationship require one partner who is more dominant, and another who is more submissive?
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    No, there can be many different dynamics
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    Maybe sexually, but not otherwise
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    Yes, even if it's only a slight difference
  1. 4. Do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater?

    Do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater?

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4. Do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater?
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    Yes, it proves they are capable of hurting their partner
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    No, not always
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  1. 6. Are you able to be truly in love with more than one person at once?

    Are you able to be truly in love with more than one person at once?

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6. Are you able to be truly in love with more than one person at once?
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    Yes, it's possible
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    No, you can have feelings for two people at once but you can't be in love with both
  1. 7. Do people look for partners that subconsciously remind them of their mother/father?

    Do people look for partners that subconsciously remind them of their mother/father?

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7. Do people look for partners that subconsciously remind them of their mother/father?
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    No, that's pseudoscience
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    Yes, I think that happens often
  1. 8. Do opposites attract?

    Do opposites attract?

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8. Do opposites attract?
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    Yes, often
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    To a certain extent but core principles still need to be similar
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    No, that never works
  1. 9. Is the "7 year itch" a thing most people go through?

    Is the "7 year itch" a thing most people go through?

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9. Is the "7 year itch" a thing most people go through?
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    Yeah, it definitely is
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    I think everyone experiences restlessness in a relationship but you can't put a specific time limit on it
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    No, every relationship is different and some people may always be content
  1. 10. Is “treat them mean, keep them keen” something that works?

    Is “treat them mean, keep them keen” something that works?

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10. Is “treat them mean, keep them keen” something that works?
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    Yes, you should never give too much away too quickly
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    No, it never works to play games
  1. 11. Should you wait a certain amount of time before contacting someone after a first date?

    Should you wait a certain amount of time before contacting someone after a first date?

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11. Should you wait a certain amount of time before contacting someone after a first date?
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    Yes, you never want to seem keen
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    No, you should just be upfront
  1. 12. Should the third person in a threesome always be someone you don’t already both know?

    Should the third person in a threesome always be someone you don’t already both know?

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12. Should the third person in a threesome always be someone you don’t already both know?
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    Yes, it will always get too messy otherwise
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    No, it depends on the individuals, you can have a threesome that doesn't change the relationships and dynamics
  1. 13. Is there such a thing as "marrying too young"?

    Is there such a thing as "marrying too young"?

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13. Is there such a thing as "marrying too young"?
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    Yes
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    No, it's a very individual thing
  1. 14. Do you "just know" if you love someone?

    Do you "just know" if you love someone?

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14. Do you "just know" if you love someone?
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    Yes, it's intuitive
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    No, doubt is natural
  1. 15. Do you think couples start to look alike after they've been together for a while?

    Do you think couples start to look alike after they've been together for a while?

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15. Do you think couples start to look alike after they've been together for a while?
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    Yes, it's only natural, you start to adopt each others styles
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    No, that's bullshit
  1. 16. Is there always a "reacher" and a "settler" when it comes to non-physical things, like income and intelligence?

    Is there always a "reacher" and a "settler" when it comes to non-physical things, like income and intelligence?

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16. Is there always a "reacher" and a "settler" when it comes to non-physical things, like income and intelligence?
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    Yes, there is always one that is just a tiny bit more impressive
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    No, definitely not, you can both be equally accomplished
  1. 17. Is a truly happy, lifelong marriage possible?

    Is a truly happy, lifelong marriage possible?

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17. Is a truly happy, lifelong marriage possible?
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    Yes, absolutely
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    No, a lifelong commitment is unrealistic

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