Buzz·Posted on May 10, 2016Special Needs Parents, What Do You Wish Other People Understood?Beyond the fact that you're seriously tired.by Mike SpohrBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink When you have kids you often meet people who don’t understand what you’re going through as a parent. 20th Century Fox But when you’re a special needs parent almost everyone doesn’t understand what you’re going through. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF NBC It can be very frustrating, and make you wish that people understood, for example, that it can be lonely for both you and your kid. Jarenwicklund / Getty Images Lots of people stare but not too many make conversation — and you want to talk! You want to make friends, too, even if it's sometimes hard for you to relate to other parents' conversations. You probably also wish they knew that when you say “no” a lot it isn’t a rebuke on your friendships. Flickr: 52214493@N03 / Via Creative Commons You have a harder time getting away for things, but you hope your friends keep asking. And — most importantly — that beyond what anyone may see is an amazing, loving kid. Denkuvaiev / Getty Images So tell us: What do you wish people understood about being a special needs parent? Louis-paul St-onge / Getty Images Share yours in the comments below and it may appear in a future BuzzFeed article!