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    33 Valentine's Day Gifts For Couples Who've Been Together So Long That They've Run Out Of Gifts To Get Each Other

    Flowers are nice, but the gift of knowing where their keys are at all times is, dare we say, better.

    1. A Tushy bidet attachment if you've been with your S.O. so long that you know all their ~dirty~ secrets — including that they don't wipe well. This'll leave them with a cleaner crack and help y'all reduce the amount of TP you use. Plus it has the added benefit of water temperature control, meaning you can control how warm or cold the spray is.

    The white bidet attached to a reviewer's toilet

    2. A scratch-off world map for the couple that's always exploring. At this point in your relationship, you have plenty of past adventures to scratch off as you wait for future ones.

    The map zoomed in on the state of California, which is scratched off

    3. A 100 Things To Do scratch-off bucket list so your plans no longer consist of the following exchange: "What do you want to do this weekend?" followed by "IDK, what do you want to do this weekend?"

    The board with some squares scratched off to reveal a cute image underneath

    4. A popcorn popper to come in handy as they curl up on the couch for their annual Pride & Prejudice (the 2005 version, duh!) screening. 

    reviewer holding open the teal silicone popper with popcorn inside it
    the red bowl filled with popcorn

    Be careful when removing it from the microwave as the bowl will be hot.

    Promising review: "This is a game changer. I borrowed one from a neighbor and bought one for myself the next day. I used to pop it on the pan with oil but with this I don’t need to. Also works MUCH better than ceramic bowl in the microwave. If you love popcorn, this is what you want." —PolishPaul

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful collection at Amazon for $11.87+ (available in three colors).

    5. A scratch-off Valentine's Day card that'll hide your mushy message and remind them of the Etch A Sketch they were obsessed with as a kid.

    square valentine's day cards that look like etch-a-sketches

    6. Or a set of long-distance relationship envelopes and notes because you're always thinking of them even if you can't be together for the holiday. You can choose the prompts you'd like on the card or opt for the most popular messages.

    seven cards in brown envelopes with messages that say
    Noteworthy / Etsy

    Noteworthy is a Kentucky-based small biz.

    Promising review: "These cards are GORGEOUS! Great customer service as well! I can’t wait to give them to my boyfriend and surprise him with it 🥰" —Chloe Blunk

    Shipping Info: Orders ship from Kentucky so delivery time depends on your location. Check the product listing for an estimated arrival date. Expedited shipping available for an additional cost.

    Get five cards and envelopes from Noteworthy K on Etsy for $13.79 (available in larger packs).

    7. A unique Lego flower bouquet if your love for them is as endless as the life of these flowers. You can choose to gift them the fully assembled blooms, but they may also enjoy putting them together with you!

    a reviewer's hand holding a vase with the lego flowers inside, plus fairy lights
    a mason jar filled with the lego flowers

    Promising review: "This is a great gift for anyone who loves flowers. They are as sturdy as they get since they're legos and although they do take a while to build, it's a very fulfilling process. Love it and would set aside as something to gift to several people at any point. They look beautiful!!" —Gaby

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $47.99.

    8. A heartwarming (and body-warming!) love letter blanket for the couple who still swap love notes. This is a great opportunity to recreate early letters you sent each other, or you can create a list of all the things you're looking forward to doing in the future! And you can choose from a preset cursive font or use your own handwriting.

    a giant blanket that looks like a piece of lined notebook paper and has an adventure bucket list on it
    Frankie Print Co / Etsy

    Frankie Print Co is a Canadian small business based in Calgary, Alberta.

    Promising review: "Blanket came out WONDERFUL! Our handwriting on it is clear and legible, unsmudged, and the frill on the border of it is an awesome touch." —Joseph Gaither

    Shipping Info: Orders ship from North Carolina so delivery time depends on your location. Check the product listing for an estimated arrival date. Expedited shipping is available for an additional cost.

    Get it from Frankie Print Co on Etsy for $159+ (available in three sizes and two handwriting styles).

    9. A box of 100 conversation starters so you never stop learning new things about your S.O. But don't toss out the deck once you've gone through it; revisit it in a little bit and you may be surprised how your answers change.

    Reviewer photo of some of the cards, which include questions like "What are you too hard on yourself for?" and "What five things do you enjoy doing with me?"

    10. Or a set of 150 questions inspired by the Love Language test to deepen your connection even after all this time together.

    The deck, which includes questions like "If you could travel back in time for one day, what year would it be and why?" and "If we as a couple had a theme song what would it be?"

    11. A dual-zone comforter that'll keep the peace in the literal and figurative marital bed. Y'all have been together long enough yet you're still fighting over someone hogging the blankets or turning on the AC overnight even though it's 40 degrees outside? Rookie move!

    The duvet showing one half is warm and the other is cool

    12. A TikTok-famous 1,000-piece puzzle from The Magic Puzzle Company because it brings an element of surprise and excitement you've never experienced with other puzzles — or other partners! Not only is the illustration so beautiful that you'll probably glue and frame it when it's completed, but it also features 50 Easter eggs throughout *and* a magical twist that reveals itself once the puzzle is finished.

    close-up of a section of the puzzle showing its whimsical illustration style

    13. And a handy puzzle board if you and your partner are big on puzzles but small on space. It folds up neatly so you can start a puzzle in the living room and finish it in the kitchen, and is large enough to hold a 1,000-piece puzzle.

    The wooden board
    Amazon

    Promising review: "I like the quality and the look of this. My husband is on a puzzle kick right now, and this looks good in our living room. He uses all four drawers for sorting, which is a real game changer! Best of all, when the grandkids come over, we just put it in another room. We like that there are only two edges with lips, because we can easily slide pieces off the other sides. I made a note of the dimensions, and only order puzzles that fit (most do.)" —Kelly Row10

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $49.99.

    14. A hands casting kit for immortalizing the hand that's guided you through many of life's challenges. You can use the kit just the two of you, or invite your kiddo(s) to join in.

    reviewer photo of three cast hands
    another reviewer photo of two hands holding each other

    This large-size bucket will fit two adult hands, two adult hands and one small child, one extra-large adult hand, or two to four child hands. There is an extra-large version if you want to cast two extra-large hands or have three or more people who want to participate.

    Promising review: "Awesome for first timers! My son got this for his Nana. The instructions were clear and easy to read. Get yourself some distilled water and put one bottle in the fridge ahead of time! So pleased with the finished product and my 6-year-old son is proud of himself. My mom loves it and it's such a personal experience; great for bonding and family time. We will buy other soon. Just look at the details!" —Jessics Kirkland

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

    15. A heated back and neck massager so you both finally stop complaining about aches and pains. Let's face it, you love each other but you're way past the stage of wanting to give each other 30-minute massages. Good thing this lil' guy will do it without requiring that you give them a massage in return.

    16. The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition — a book of scratch-off dates to add some spontaneity to your long-term relationship. Each activity is a surprise until you scratch it off. You'll also get an instant camera so you can snap a pic of all the fun you have during each challenge.

    The book with a photo of a happy couple

    17. An incredibly practical and oh so luxurious faux fur throw blanket that'll keep 'em nice and cozy during movie nights, in the car, in bed, at breakfast, in the shower...OK maybe not that last one. If your S.O. is always cold (even though the thermostat says 78 degrees), you need this.

    18. A pound of cereal marshmallows, because as much as you love them, you've tolerated them eating the marshmallows from your box of Lucky Charms for far, far, far too long.

    Promising review: "Buying these charms was one of the best decisions of my life. The bag is twice the size of my head. The marshmallows are aesthetically pleasing and delicious. It's everything I ever wanted in a snack." —Amazon Customer

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $12.98.

    19. A variety pack of Partake cookies if y'all have bonded over your shared allergies...to basically everything. Well, it's your lucky day! Common allergens like peanuts, eggs, dairy, soy, tree nuts, and more are not on the ingredient list of these delicious cookies!

    reviewer image of one of each flavor cookie

    20. A mates for life print for the person you've chosen as your mate...for life.

    The print, which features sketches of animals that mate for life
    Uncommon Goods

    Promising review: "This was an anniversary gift I got my husband for being together for seven years. We are both nature and animal lovers and he is my mate for life so he loved it!" —NICKIENOODLE

    Shipping Info: Economy (7–9 business days), standard (3–7 business days), expedited (2–3 business days), and express (1–2 business days) shipping is available for an additional cost.

    Get the framed print from Uncommon Goods for $100.

    21. A fill-in-the-blank book so you can spell out all the reasons you love your significant other...like when they leave you little presents around the apartment, aka dirty cups and dishes. OK, maybe not that...

    The book cover

    22. A one-year couples journal to kickstart fun, meaningful conversations like the ones you had during the early days of your relationship. Or, a Q&A-a-day three-year journal for couples in a more time-tested relationship who want to create a time capsule of their lives together.

    23. A two-pack of Tile Bluetooth trackers that'll put a stop to your partner's most-asked question: "Honey, can you call my phone?" Good thing they'll never need help ~finding~ all the reasons they love you.

    the black square tracker on a keychain

    24. A Fender amp key holder because this thing ~rocks~. They'll find it so satisfying to plug in their keys that you may never again hear, "Honey! Do you know where my keys are?" or receive the frantic "On my way, just need to find my keys" text. 

    Check it out on TikTok.

    Promising review: "My husband was so excited to find this keyhook! He is an avid songwriter and musician and loves Fender products. The keyhook looks great, is well made, and is definitely eye catching. Right after we hung it up a friend visited and asked us if it was a custom ordered piece! I was initially concerned with how tight the jacks plug into the base. My fear was that I would pull it off the wall trying to detach my keys...but we have had no problems. It seems to be firmly attached to the wall with the included hardware. Also be sure to pay attention to where you hang it as the jacks stick out from the wall further than your traditional keyhook. All in all, a very cool piece and we are glad we purchased it!" —Leslie W.

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $33.99.

    25. An AllTrails Pro subscription if your other half is always itching to go explore the great outdoors. AllTrails is a free service that helps you find the perfect route for your hike, bike ride, family stroll, or trail run. The Pro subscription allows you to download the maps so you can stick to your route even if you don't have service — a nice plus if you're adventuring somewhere that's out of cellphone range.

    Person walking on a trail

    26. A hugging candle for the partner who has a soft spot for adorable candles that are just too cute to burn.

    the candle in different colors
    CaiCai Handmade / Etsy

    CaiCai Handmade is a small business based in Katy, Texas.

    Promising review: "So adorable, great size! Fragrance is beautiful and very strong. I really like how strong the fragrance is, personally, because I can enjoy the candle without burning and ruining it if I decide to keep it for decor. Really great candle! Excellent quality!" —Jennifer Hoffmann

    Shipping Info: Orders ship from Texas so delivery time depends on your location. Check the product listing for an estimated arrival date. Expedited shipping available for an additional cost.

    Get it from CaiCai Handmade on Etsy for $18+ (available in a variety of colors and scents and with or without special Valentine's Day packaging).

    27. An Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K to bring y'all thousands — literally thousands — of streaming channels, movies, and shows, as well as live TV, news, and sports. The one nice thing about long-term relationships is that you both appreciate just sitting quietly and watching a show together.

    reviewer holding the black remote

    28. A Le Creuset magnetic trivet that'll allow your fave chef to simply hover a hot pot over the trivet and — BAM! — the trivet will stick to the bottom and they can place the pot on any nearby, stable surface. Gone are the days of them frantically shouting "Can someone help me in here?!" when their hands are full.

    acacia wood trivet with magnetic rings
    Amazon

    Promising review: "The wood is really super nice, smooth, and clean. Sticks great to the pan and the silicone rings add great shock absorption so it doesn't make a lot of noise when you sent down my heavy-ass 13-some-inch skillet! Cleans off easily; I've only used it a handful of times but it still looks brand new! A little pricey but it's a premium kitchen thingy. I recommend don't settle for something cheaper." —K. Lujan

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $49.95.

    29. The new AirPods Pro because you've been together long enough to understand that you really do love each other but if you so much as hear them breathe you're going to scream. These'll help block out the noise with the sound of your favorite tunes.

    Promising review: "I have purchased every generation of AirPods. When I first read the reviews here, before purchasing these AirPods, I thought people were perhaps exaggerating a bit. But after having them for two days, what they say is absolutely true. The sound is amazing. Light years better than the AirPods Pro 1. It’s hard to believe that the richness of sound and bass can actually be produced by these small speakers. The noise cancellation feature is outstanding; in fact, when I took them out of my ears, and was hit with the onslaught of actual live sound around me, I realized just how effective the noise filtration is. They’re comfortable, fit great in my ears, especially with the choices of circular ear pads that are included, and the battery life is so much better than the previous generation. Love these guys. Very satisfying purchase." —M. SHAPIRO

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get them from Amazon for $189.99.

    30. A 7-in-1 Instant Pot if you want to give them two gifts in one. This time-saving device will deliver your dinner in minutes when it used to take hours, giving you more time to spend with each other. Awww!

    The Instant Pot

    31. A screaming goat who sits on a tree stump and shrieks whenever you touch it (honestly, same) for the partner who still appreciates a gag gift.

    The screaming goat and a mini booklet of screaming goats

    32. The Wand, a practical mini handheld filter so y'all can enjoy a bottle of wine together. This lil' guy is designed to remove the histamines and sulfites in alcohol that may trigger headaches and hangovers. It's also supposed to revive oxidized wine so you don't have to toss an open bottle.

    The wand

    33. A pair of magnetic hand-holding socks to ensure you and your partner are always touching.

    model wearing calf-high socks that have eyes on them and magnetic hands
    Amazon

    Promising review: "My sister and I have had so much fun with these socks!!! They are super cute and the magnetic hold really well. The magnets are a bit big so you do notice them but overall super fun and cute." —addison fullmer

    Shipping Info: Free expedited Prime shipping available for Prime members, and non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get them from Amazon for $9.98+ (available in two colors and in packs of four).

    Live footage of y'all exchanging gifts on February 14: