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35 Gifts For Your Significant Other That Are Secretly For You, Too

Two gifts for the price of one, because you deserve a little something too!

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1. A question per day journal with lines for both you and your SO, leading to interesting discussion on topics like "Where would you like to travel together?", "What does your partner's laugh sound like?" and "What's the softest thing you're wearing today?"

Get it from Amazon or Walmart for $12.79.

Promising review: "Super cute idea. My bf and I started filling this out. We don't get to see each other a lot face to face so every morning I open up the book and text him the question of the day and he sends me a response. Some of the questions are fun and others are very thoughtful and help us get to know more things about each other. It's a fun exercise and it's brought about a lot of interesting conversations for us!" —Heather

2. An Amazon Echo Dot that'll be a a time- and space-saving way to settle all your arguments (and prove you're right, of course).

In addition to proving YES, that actor WAS in that movie you saw last week, the Dot (powered by Alexa) will tell you the news, weather, play Jeopardy with you, play music, power any connected lights or appliances, and so much more. Google searches? I don't know her.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

Promising review: "I don't know how I even functioned before I had one of these. This one device has ended the age-old 'COULD YOU JUST CHECK WHAT TIME IT CLOSES PLEASE!' argument in my house. Want to know what traffic is like? Do you want to know when the movie starts? How about you want to wake up on time but you just found the comfy warm spot & realized your didn't set alarms for the morning so you are playing the alarm roulette game? Want to know about when that restaurant closes? Or maybe you need to turn on calming sleepy time music but your hands are trying to wrestle an infant screaming bloody murder because they enjoy being nudie and you are trying to get them into their feetie jim jams? ALEXA CAN HELP WITH THAT! It's only $50 ... just make your life easier."—Niki

3. A contoured memory foam pillow designed to keep snorers in a ~quieter~ sleeping position — helping them (and you, duh) sleep better every night.

Get it from Amazon for $49.99.

Promising review: "I needed a pillow to help with shoulder pain & to help with snoring due to allergies. This pillow has helped with shoulder pain as now after using the pillow for only a few nights I wake up with much less pain & stiffness. My husband says my snoring has definitely decreased as I am able to sleep more comfortably on my side. I also liked that the pillow came in a very usable wrap that will protect the pillow for traveling. I would recommend this to anyone with snoring or other physical pain sleeping problems." —Gail Walters


4. A bottle of odor-busting Poo-Pourri, because their deuces make you want to say ✌️ to your home for the rest of the day.

Get a four-ounce bottle from Amazon for $11.69 or Walmart for $10.19.

Promising review: "My mother bought both my husband and I a small bottle as a gag gift this past Christmas. Little did she know, this product would become a necessity in our household of five people. It has been a godsend to currently pregnant me, who finds offense in the scent of even the most pleasant of smells sometimes, never mind the smell of another human being's excrement. (Which is kind of ironic considering how much poo I'll be getting all up in just a few short months.) Poo-Pourri has made it possible for me to use the restroom within minutes (rather than hours) of a family member doing their business in there, which is vital considering how frequently pregnant women need to pee. After using up one of the small bottles gifted to us, I immediately logged into Amazon and bought the biggest bottle I could find using Subscribe & Save. Thank you Poo-Pourri, you're a gag-reflex saver!" —Rachel N. Briggs

5. And a spinning sign so you always know how long the bathroom will be ~occupied~ — and what you might expect to find there when your SO is done.

Including options for "quick shower" and "shower with karaoke session."

Get it from Amazon for $5.95 or Jet for $8.99.

6. A subscription to Shaker and Spoon, a monthly box delivered right to your door to bring you all the ingredients you need to whip up three tasty cocktail recipes each month. You both need a good happy hour in 2018.

Each recipe comes with all the ingredients you need (minus the actual main booze) to make four of each drink. Each box is themed around one kind of alcohol, so if one month doesn't sound good to you, you can just skip it.

Subscribe at CrateJoy for $50+ per month.

Promising review: "This is a great subscription box. It's chock full of fresh, high-quality ingredients. Makes playing home-bartender so much fun! Super easy to follow recipes that look and taste like a pro made them. I highly recommend to the person looking to get out of the rum & coke rut." —NIcki

7. A tabletop game to make your home feel like a date night out to an arcade. Love means never having to leave the house to play air hockey.

Get it from Urban Outfitters for $36. Available in three game boards: air hockey, basketball, pool, and foosball.


8. A velvety matte liquid lipstick that'll never transfer onto your skin, whether they're pecking you on the cheek or opting for an entire makeout sesh.

Get them from Amazon for $20 each. Available in 38 colors.

Promising review: "'Soft and velvety,' is what my fiancé says. He says the shade of red is the perfect color. Definitely not drying once it sets. Leaves my lips super soft and matte. Does not transfer while drinking coffee or giving your loved one a kiss on the cheek!! Love, love, love it!!!" —Mandolinsara

9. An all natural beard balm made with vegan, organic ingredients like argan and avocado oils, plus shea butter and aloe to nourish skin and soften coarse hairs. You're tired of their beard being scratchy AF!

It has over 5,600 reviews from other beard-havers!

Get it from Amazon for $12.23.

Promising review: "RARRRH! I just want to get ALL UP IN THERE with my face and hands when my hubby puts this on!! And I do. LOL! After reading the reviews about the scent I was hesitant because I don't like most colognes and licorice scents make me nauseated but it doesn't smell like that at all to me, in the can or on my man. It's hard to pinpoint but smells so masculine, clean woodsy, and just wonderful manliness to this sensitive schnoz! Much to my chagrin, it fades progressively after a couple of hours. My hubby keeps his beard and 'stach to a trimmed medium/shorter length but I have noticed a big difference in shine and softness with his twice a day use. He also has sensitive skin prone to breakouts and has not had any trouble with this product clogging his pores...or mine. :) He's promo'ed Honest Amish to his bearded buddies as I have to my girlfriends with bearded menfolk. No one product is perfect for 100% of users but we highly recommend you try this stuff." —KCKENDRICK

10. A hanger that'll light up at the touch of a button so they can get ready in the morning without turning EVERY SINGLE BULB on.

It was lit'rally designed by a boyfriend who was tired of getting dressed in the dark.

Get it from Firebox for $30.89 or Animi Causa for $35.99.

You can also just pop on a few stick-on, motion-detecting LED night lights right in the closet itself! Get a three-pack from Amazon for $11.97.

11. An Amazon Fire TV stick you can simply plug into your existing TV and stream all the shows, movies, and music you want. Enjoy it with your partner for an at-home date night, or by yourself when you simply can't wait for them to watch that next episode of The Crown.

You can use the voice button to find shows, launch apps, search for type of movie ("Alexa find suspense thrillers") OR EVEN ORDER A PIZZA from Dominos!

Get it from Amazon for $34.99.

Promising review: "Earlier this month, my TV entertainment included Dish 200+ channel satellite TV, 20Mbps turbo internet, Netflix, and Amazon Prime. After doing some research, I bought three Amazon Fire Sticks with the voice remote, cancelled Dish, upgraded to 30Mbps internet, added Sling 25 channels, added standard Hulu, and CBS All Access. Guess who still gets 96+% of the channels watched, added Prime Music and several hundred shows (that networks don't play) to all the TVs in the house, and saved over $700 per year compared to what I paid this past year? I did. I never thought of cutting the cord until I really looked into it all. Getting Amazon Fire Sticks are worth it and they work well....and once you get used to knowing what show plays where, it's a no-brainer. If you're like me, and you don't watch 80% of the channels you pay for, it's so worth it." —Amazon Customer


13. A useful and pretty photography guide so they can develop their burgeoning interest... and also so they'll take pics guaranteed to up your 'gram followers.

Get it from Amazon for $16.16, Barnes and Noble for $10.51, or a local bookseller through IndieBound here.

Promising review: "This book is fantastic especially for people that are either new to photography or are looking to find different ideas for backgrounds and aspects that make pictures more appealing to the observer. This book is easy to understand and really does explain the pictures with summary that is detailed enough for the reader to follow but not so detailed that people that are new to photography will be lost with terminology." —Roscoe B.

14. A Blue Apron subscription, because they've expressed an interest in learning to cook, but you're expressed NO interest in tasting their weird experiments.

Choose between the two-person plan or the family plan, and you'll get 2-4 recipes each week with every step mapped out. It's delivered right to your door with fresh, locally sourced ingredients— in just the right amounts you need. Plus, you can customize it all to your dietary needs.

Subscriptions start at $9.99 per serving.

15. A beautiful blank genealogy chart so you can trace your family trees together for display on your wall.

Get it from Amazon for $14.95. Also available in a colorful version.

Promising review: "Chart is nice quality. I filled it out, put it in a nice frame and hung it in the hallway. It looks great, and is a nice conversation piece. I love seeing my husband's and my lineage at a glance!" —NotTheNany

If you're interested in learning even more about your family history, you can also give a 23andMe DNA testing kit. Just mail in a saliva sample, and you'll get results delivered in 6-8 weeks!


16. A golden scratch off map of the world you can fill out to encourage future trips together. Any place that's still gold? Plan a vacation!

This one has specific cities listed, so you can scratch off the gold more carefully if you've been to Rome but not Florence, for example.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99 or a similar, smaller one from Jet for $23.99.

Promising review: "This map is exactly what I wanted. I have traveled extensively most of my adult life, both in my 21 years as a Marine and 32 cruises with my wife. I wanted a map with the names of the major cities of the world and this one meets my needs. Packaging and shipping was great and on time. I would highly recommend this map to anyone. I intend to mount it on poster board (cork) and use push pins to mark our world travels." —Kindle Customer

18. A Prime membership to give the gift of free two-day shipping, streaming movies, TV, and music, exclusive products and deals, and a selection of Kindle e-books. It's not like you're going to use it too.... or will you?

19. A super slim portable battery with two USB ports so ~both~ of your devices can be charging at the same time. Oh, and by the way, it has over 11,000 REVIEWS!

83% are five stars. 93% are four stars or higher!

Get it from Amazon for $41.99.

Promising review: "What is there to say about Anker power banks? This thing rocks! I'm able to get 5 full charges on my iPhone 6 and 2 full charges on my iPad mini 2, from just 1 full charge of this power bank. It packs away really nicely in the provided mesh pouch, and though it's a bit long in length, it's not obtrusive to get in the way of taking it along in your daily carry. Well worth it for the money! Highly recommended!" —Josho4


20. A 12-inch green tea-infused memory foam mattress so *your* sleep will never be interrupted when *they* toss and turn. Maybe a mattress seems like a weird present, but honestly the gift of a good night's sleep is the best gift of all.

Get a queen-size mattress from Amazon for $189. Sizes: twin–California king.

Promising review: "This mattress is absolutely amazing! I purchased this mattress a couple weeks ago. Both my husband's and my sleep quality has improved so much. Every time we got on the bed we are knocked out. With this memory foam mattress, we do not need to constantly turn on the bed to get comfortable anymore. The memory foam just adjusts to our body shape. It is also very steady and quiet. I am a very sensitive sleeper. I wakes up even with the slightest sound or movement. With this mattress, I barely notice my husband's movements on the bed anymore. I am able to sleep through the nights. Highly recommend to anybody who is looking to improve their sleep quality!" —Amazon Customer

21. A Kindle paperwhite with a glare-free screen that looks like an actual book page, so they won't keep you up when they can't put their book down.

Being able to read in a completely dark room?? 🎶 Miracles happen, once in a while. 🎶

Get it from Amazon for $119.99+. Available in black and white.

Promising review: "I'm a big Kindle fan and carry my Kindle with me usually wherever I go. I just open up my Kindle and I'm at the same place in my story that I was when I closed the cover to put it aside. It's nice to have when I'm waiting in the car for a certain someone (husband) to come out of the tool store, waiting in a doctor's office, or reading off and on while the grandkids are in the public pool. Oh, don't let me forget that I can read in a completely dark room; this comes in handy when hubby wants to sleep and I want to finish my novel before I go to sleep. The Kindle is lightweight and fits right in my purse. It's much easier than carrying a paperback around." —Starlett

22. Or if they are *really* anti-e-reader, a book light that'll simply hang around their neck and focus all the glow on the page — not on your sleeping face. Plus, they won't have to keep adjusting it from page to page, creating less noise.

It also functions as a desk lamp, which is really just cool.

Get it from Amazon for $22.40. Available in two colors.

Promising review: "I love the heart light! It's pretty, versatile and the light is perfect. I like that the light can be adjusted from 20% -100%. There are four levels of intensity and that is very convenient when you don't need the full blast of light. I recommend it especially for late night reading in bed." —Diana

23. A hilarious yet useful cuddling pillow so they can feel the joy of being the little spoon... without your arm falling asleep.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99+. Available in eight colors.

Promising review: "I ordered this for my girlfriend and she loves it. The pillow that came with it is high quality and is comfortable to lay on." —Amazon Customer


24. A nifty notepad perfect for sending little love letters to each other. You can fill out the top one when you give it to them — and the rest of the pad? Guess they'll be sent to you! 😍

Get it from Amazon for $11.97.

Promising review: "With this pad, it is incredibly easy to be both romantic and efficient. I've been using this consistently for a few months now — filling out a sheet when I feel especially enamored with my partner and sending it to his apartment. This way, he gets a delayed but genuine affirmation of my appreciation for him, which makes him feel appreciated and woo-ed. It's a really fun and easy way to do that, because what's easier than checking off a few boxes? My roommates and I use the Knock Knock pads for a variety of things--especially this one and the one for grocery shopping lists." —Rachel F.

26. A straight-up closet doubling hanging rack to help organize their stuff... and also give YOU significantly more closet room.

Get one from Amazon for $18.99 or a two-pack for $29.99. Also available on Jet for $15.59 each.

Promising review: "Well, I ordered this one, after listening to my husband complain about how much clothing my girls have and how cluttered the closet looks. He advised me to get rid of some of the clothes, so I ordered this product to see if we could organize it better. Wow, it is just amazing how much space this little thing can create. The closet does not look messy or bulky anymore, it definitely doubled the space in the closet. One thing I really like is that you can move the bottom bar as you need it, and the clothing in the bottom has enough space. Those little hooks to hang purses and hats —wow, great idea. I got another to organize my closet, and I am so excited to see the end result." —Amazon Customer

27. A Squishable corgi they'll fall in love with so hard, they'll finally acquiesce to your wish to finally get a pupper of your own.

Tbh also works if your SO wants a dog, but you don't! (Although... why don't you??)

Get the 7-inch size from Amazon for $19.49 and the 15-inch size for $42.99. You can get the mini size corgo *holding a donut* from Jet for $19.99.

If you're interested in other cat and dog breeds and DON'T care whether it comes by the 26th, check out Pet Face pillows. They're available in 16 dog and cat varieties — check out all the options here.

Promising review: "I purchased this for a corgi-loving friend as a birthday present. It was so soft and adorable that everyone present just had to cuddle it! Super cute, soft, and seems well made. My friend loves it, and even those who didn't think they liked stuffed animals were jealous. Highly recommended for the dog lover in your life!" —Paige F.


28. A sushi-making kit so you can both save money by whipping up rolls at home rather than frequenting the local Japanese restaurant.

Get the kit from Amazon for $24.95.

Promising review: "Made sushi for the first time last night and it was awesome!!! This thing is so easy!! I was able to make rolls with rice on the outside with no problem — just added a little water to the roll mat and voila! I purchased eel sauce and made spicy mayo and put them in squirt bottles to give the platter that restaurant look. I also added black sesame seeds to the outside of one and a very inexpensive black caviar to another. My guests and husband were all amazed!" —Beach Mom

29. A pair of mug cake mixes (one chocolate, one vanilla), complete with sprinkle toppings and the mugs themselves so you can both enjoy a low-effort sweet treat during your next lazy Sunday Funday.

World Market

Just add vegetable oil, one egg, and some milk and nuke!

Get them from World Market for $19.98.

31. A crepe-making set complete with 12-inch nonstick griddle and wooden spreader to ensure the lightest, thinnest crepes outside of Paris.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

Promising review: "Excellent product. I am not good at making crepes with a pan but this gadget makes it very easy. I like that it doesn’t have small crevices where batter can get stuck. This device is very easy to wipe clean. It was still on my counter after breakfast, so we just used it to make grilled cheese. I’m glad that we bought this and am looking forward to experimenting with different fillings for breakfast, brunch, lunch, dinner and dessert." —Virginia Lawyer Mom


32. And a tray with slide-proof slots for a phone and tablet so those crepes can be delivered for breakfast in bed.

Get it from Amazon for $38.96. Available in three colors. Get a similar (without the slide-proof slots) from Walmart for $24.99.

Promising review: "This tray is so comfortable. It's great for working, eating, or studying in bed. The adjustable incline is awesome for laptops and the mouse pad is really useful. I like the drawer, too; its great for storing pencils, pens, or earbuds. In the slots for the phone and tablet there is a little space to slip your charger in. I am very impressed with this lap desk. It's very comfortable for breakfast in bed. I've used it about three months now, and the more I use it, the more I like it. I strongly recommend it." —Lana GF

33. A copy of the Llama Sutra that'll put the ~adult~ in "adult coloring book." Talk about an 😉 activity book😉!

Get it from Amazon for $5.99.

Promising review: "This is hysterical. We love this silly Llama Sutra. Be forewarned though, not all drawings are of llamas — other animals are mixed in the book in various 'sexual' positions. There are no graphic depictions of animal privates, just tasteful silliness various animals in classic Kama Sutra positions." —Lauren R.

34. A pair of mugs that'll really come in handy when one of you is deciding when to ask a favor early in the morning.


Get a matching pair from Amazon for $22.89 or individually from Walmart for $12.99 each.

Promising review: "SO fun to use these mugs! I've seen similar ones that aren't clear, but the clear part is what makes it funny because you (and whoever is blessed to sit with you in the morning while you're cranky) can see just when other people are allowed to speak." —Linda M. Parker

35. An elegant cheese board with cracker slots, because your 2018 resolution is more wine-and-cheese dinners – without having to invite other people over.

It's made from environmentally-friendly bamboo, and it even has the names of different cheeses emblazoned on it for a ~fancier~ look.

Get it from Amazon for $19.97.

Promising review: "I absolutely love this charcuterie and cheese board! The hubby and I love winding down with some wine, cheese and charcuterie. We have tried other boards, and usually the crackers tumble off the board as I walk from the kitchen to the couch (Yes I am clumsy). The nice thing about this board is that is comes with grooves on each side to hold things like crackers, or olives or nuts, things that usually roll off my other boards haha." —Foreverjaded