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1. A question per day journal with lines for both you and your SO, leading to interesting discussion on topics like "Where would you like to travel together?", "What does your partner's laugh sound like?" and "What's the softest thing you're wearing today?"
2. An Amazon Echo Dot that'll be a a time- and space-saving way to settle all your arguments (and prove you're right, of course).
3. A weird-looking pillow designed to help support sleeping in a properly aligned position, whether it's on their side or back. And yes, according to reviewers that even means keeping snorers in a ~quieter~ sleeping position — helping them (and you, duh) sleep better every night.
4. A bottle of odor-busting Poo-Pourri, because their deuces make you want to say ✌️ to your home for the rest of the day.
5. A subscription to Shaker and Spoon, a monthly box delivered right to your door to bring you all the ingredients you need to whip up three tasty cocktail recipes each month. You both need a good happy hour in 2023.
6. A shrunk-down tabletop air hockey game to make your home feel like a date night out to an arcade. Love means never having to leave the house to play air hockey.
7. A selection of Wolferman's most-loved flavors of English muffin (original recipe, cinnamon raisin, San Fran–style sourdough, and blueberry) to kick breakfast up a big ole notch (they're jumbo-sized muffins!) — and maybe even encourage them to make *you* breakfast.
8. A velvety matte (non-liquid!) Nars Powermatte lipstick reviewers say is totally "kissproof," meaning it'll never transfer onto your skin, whether they're pecking you on the cheek or opting for an entire makeout sesh.
9. An all natural beard balm made with vegan, organic ingredients like argan and avocado oils, plus shea butter and aloe to nourish skin and soften coarse hairs. You're tired of their beard being the scratchiest!
10. An Amazon Fire TV stick (it's 50% faster than the last generation!) you can simply plug into your existing TV and stream all the shows, movies, and music you want. Enjoy it with your partner for an at-home date night, or by yourself when you simply can't wait for them to watch that next episode of White Lotus.
11. Read This if You Want to Take Great Photographs, a useful and pretty photography guide so they can develop their burgeoning interest... and also so they'll take pics guaranteed to up your 'gram followers.
12. A Hello Fresh gift subscription, because they've expressed an interest in learning to cook, but you're expressed NO interest in tasting their weird experiments.
13. A beautiful blank genealogy chart so you can trace your family trees together for display on your wall.
14. A pair of stylish slim-fit joggers if you're tired of seeing them in those ratty, holes-everywhere sweatpants. Now you won't be embarrassed to be seen with them on last-minute grocery runs.
15. A scratch off map of the world you can fill out to encourage future trips together. Any place that's still gold? Plan a vacation! Plus it comes with a separate U.S. map for scratching off individual states.
16. A stovetop espresso maker (with a Lichtenstein-inspired design!) that'll brew two cups at once — meaning they basically have no excuse not to make one for you at the same time.
17. Or a half-gallon cold brew maker, because mornings will go much more smoothly when there's enough delicious iced coffee to go around. Just twist the lid and pour — and be on your way.
18. A Prime membership to give the gift of free two-day shipping, streaming movies, TV, and music, exclusive products and deals, and a selection of Kindle e-books. It's not like you're going to use it too.... or will you?
19. A super slim Anker portable battery with two USB ports so ~both~ of your devices can be charging at the same time. Oh, and by the way, it has over 37,000 5-STAR REVIEWS!
20. A three-inch memory foam mattress topper so *your* sleep will never be interrupted when *they* toss and turn. Maybe a mattress topper seems like a weird present, but honestly the gift of a good night's sleep is the best gift of all.
21. The newest version of the Kindle Paperwhite with a glare-free backlit screen that looks like an actual book page, so they won't keep you up when they can't put their book down. Turn the lamp off, once and for all! Aaaand (in this newest gen) they can use a warm backlight setting to help them sleep too.
22. Or a hands-free book light that'll simply hang around their neck and focus all the glow on the page — not on your sleeping face. Plus, they won't have to keep adjusting it from page to page, creating less noise.
23. A hilarious yet useful cuddling pillow so they can feel the joy of being the little spoon... without your arm falling asleep.
24. A nifty notepad perfect for sending little love letters to each other. You can fill out the top one when you give it to them — and the rest of the pad? Guess they'll be sent to you! 😍
25. BuzzFeed Tasty Ultimate cookbook, a collection of 150 recipes, kitchen hacks, and the best techniques, because you've watched the videos like a bajillion times together, and you want them to cook one for you, dangit!
26. Or an Instant Pot for whipping up press-the-button-and-watch-the-magic-happen dishes and meals — maybe they'll finally ~get cooking~ on all those recipes they have saved.
27. A straight-up closet doubling hanging rack to help organize their stuff... and also give YOU significantly more closet room.
28. A sushi-making kit so you can both save money by whipping up rolls at home rather than frequenting Seamless a little too often.
29. A set of Lapcos sheet masks take your beauty-obsessed boo's at-home spa night to the next level. Not only do these feel great, but reviewers actually swear by them for glowier skin. And when your S.O. asks you to join in on the fun on your next movie night, so will you!
30. Queer Eye: Love Yourself. Love Your Life., so you can reap all the rewards of a Fab Five makeover, complete with tips and tricks & dos and don'ts for fashion, food, decor, style, and even self-branding help.
31. A pair of Han and Leia mugs to express your love on the daily — with the added bonus of never getting your coffee cups mixed up again.
32. A crepe-making set complete with 12-inch nonstick griddle, wooden spreader, and spatula to ensure the lightest, thinnest crepes outside of Paris.
33. And a stylish tray with raised edges so those crepes can be delivered for breakfast in bed without making a big ole mess.
34. A "mix it up" date night generator so you never have a hard time deciding what to do on a Friday night. It's simple: draw three cards: dinner card (e.g. dinner must be a noodle-based dish), movie card (e.g. watch a movie from the past three years that was robbed of an award), and a mix it up challenge (an extra challenge for both dinner and the movie) — and have a fun date night!
35. An elegant cheese board with cracker slots, because your 2023 resolution is more wine-and-cheese dinners just for two — and this board miiiight just have enough room.
You, as you plan out your totally-selfless-no-skin-in-the-game present:
