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Pelvic pain is incredibly common and not fun at all to deal with! Some of these products may help.
According to their website, Ohnut is "worn externally at the base of a penetrating partner (e.g. on their shaft or on a toy), the tool compresses down to act as a soft buffer during sex. Each set comes with four linking rings that allow you to make simple adjustments, so you and your partner can not only discover comfort but also what depths feel really good — for both of you. Ohnut is designed to feel just like skin." The tool is BPA-, phthalate-, and latex-free, and it's made from FDA-approved body-safe material. You can get the original set of four buffer rings from Ohnut for $65.
By the time most folks finally get a referral to a pelvic specialist, it's usually overdue. Years of dismissal and isolation could have been avoided, invasive treatment options forgone, the fear of pain that fundamentally changes the way we exist in the world — could be gone by now. And yet Pelvic Physical Therapy is a mystery for most people. Or it's too far away. Or it's too expensive. But with Pelvic Gym, they are aiming to fix all that. And because we can, we chatted with the team and created a special link for any BuzzFeed readers (yes, you!) to get a whole month free to try for yourself. Just use this link! After that, it costs just $10 a month.
Years ago, when these first hit the market, I got to meet with the founder of Foria, who told me that he created this product for the market after making homemade ones for his wife who, you guessed it, lives with pelvic pain! Watching them help her made him realize they could help others, too. You can get a pack of eight for $50.
These suppositories were created by a woman who struggled with vulvodynia for eight years, and I've definitely found that they help me manage my pelvic pain. They are pricey, but I definitely recommend trying if you have the means. You can get a pack of five for $60.
According to Simple Solace CBD's website, the creator decided to venture into their own CBD product line "after being diagnosed with endometriosis in 2018." They continued, "I turned to CBD to help with my quality of life. After seeing what it could do for endometriosis symptoms, I decided to share the love with everyone else who has endometriosis that I could reach. This is how Simple Solace CBD was born." You can get a pack of 10 suppositories that have 100mg of CBD each for $50.
I am generally a size small but I sized up to a medium in these to give my abdomen more room, and I would recommend doing the same if you're interested in trying them out. According to NyssaCare's site, these leggings are "ideal for those days when you’re living life at home or running errands but want to be wrapped in soft, sleek, comfortable loungewear that’s actually functional."
Whether you’re enduring the discomfort of fertility treatments, coming out of postpartum, dealing with period pain, endometriosis flare-ups, or generally feeling a bit blah, Nyssa’s VieWear Pelvic Comfort Live-In Leggings are the first eco-friendly leggings "specially designed to discreetly hold an ice or heat pack over the uterus and ovaries or between the legs." You can get your own pair for $88 (available in women's sizes XS-2X). They also make a singular ice or heat pack for $13.
I learned about this tool from a pelvic floor therapist I saw post-excision surgery in 2020, but I still use it regularly to this day. According to their website, "the brilliant design is employed as a solution for massage by physical therapists and at home for those experiencing sexual and pelvic discomfort. The user can easily manipulate the TheraWand to gently relieve muscles that are tender, tight, or have trigger points." You can get your own (in two color options) for $34.95.
It's the same concept as the aforementioned TheraWand, except that this one vibrates. According to their website, "the vibrating pelvic wand is covered in silky smooth, medical-grade silicone and uniquely designed to reach all muscles of the pelvic floor." It was created by a pelvic physical therapist to use vibration techniques and ergonomic curves to relieve trigger points in the pelvic floor muscles — including the most deep and hard-to-reach obturator internus and puborectalis muscles! You can get your own, with 10 different soothing vibration settings, for $59.99.
According to their website, Elvie visualizes pelvic floor movements in real time using biofeedback. The device is sensitive enough to correct contractions or other movements while guiding you through each exercise so that your technique remains on point. At $199, it ain't cheap! But like I said, it may be an investment for anyone looking to commit to their pelvic floor health.
According to Chiavaye's website, "founder Kaylyn Easton was inspired to create Chiavaye through her experience suffering from severe endometriosis. Through her personal struggle with endometriosis, multiple surgeries, learning about holistic healing, and listening to other women, Kaylyn realized that the same concepts for skincare could be applied to women's personal care — especially since women experience so many changes to their vaginal health throughout life. Each ingredient is chosen to maximize benefits." You can grab a 30mL bottle for $12.99.
According to Quim's website, the oils were created "after years of dealing with persistent vaginal health issues on our own — yeast infections, bladder infections, difficulty climaxing, low libido, allergic reactions to commercial lube — we came together to share what we’ve learned and to bring you formulas that work for us." I simply cannot emphasize enough how soothing these serums feel on my (sometimes extremely angry) vulva. Quim offers two different options — "Smooth Operator," which is more of an intimacy serum, or "Happy Clam," which is more of an everyday oil — and both cost $48. In my experience, a little bit goes a long way.
It goes without saying, but each experience with vaginismus will be different. Gina's idea, however, is that no one should have to go through it alone. The app, which costs $2.99 to download, offers information on treatment options, informational tidbits about the pelvic floor, and conversation scripts that can be utilized when trying to seek treatment from a medical professional.