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18 Screenshots From "Nice Guys" Who've Made 2023 A Living Hell For Women, I'm Sorry To Report

These men are truly unbelievable...

Warning: Some submissions include topics of verbal abuse, harassment, and body-shaming. Please proceed with caution.

1. This "nice guy," who didn't understand the concept of boundaries and attempted to defend his "wholesome attitude":

"Yeah I push boundaries — so sorry"
"The one guy in the world [who] doesn't send unsolicited dick pics, but I'm disrespectful"

2. This "nice guy," who couldn't fathom why he was being friend-zoned:

"I'm such a nice guy to her..."

3. This "nice guy," who was shockingly offended when a woman canceled their date:

Man "offended" when woman canceled a date
Man "offended" when woman canceled a date

4. This "nice guy," who shamed women who used vibrators instead of "feeling satisfied" by having sex with "a real man":

"Girls will pound themselves silly with a piece of plastic while leaving a good man that would love them 'till [the] end of time in the friend zone"

5. This "nice guy," who went on a soapbox to declare just how wonderful he was, and didn't understand why women "didn't want to settle for someone like him":

Selfie Snapchat of man: "Why is it that in today's society, simply asking to go on a date is more difficult than it needs to be"

6. This "nice guy," who thought he was being suuuuuuuper kind, when in reality, was perpetuating some pretty toxic behavior:

Man insisting that he's a "good dating match"
Man insisting that he's a "good dating match"
Man insisting that he's a "good dating match"

7. This "nice guy," who randomly messaged a woman, hoping she'd want to date him, and was super creepy about it:

"Hi, princess — I'm your new daddy. You like nasty, degrading men but you need a real man"

8. This "nice guy," who put super offensive and rude romantic interests in his dating profile, thinking they were actually valid???:

Man's Tinder bio slamming LGBTQ+ people and women

9. This "nice guy," who wholeheartedly believed he was kind for offering help, when in reality, he was totally gaslighting a woman:

"Nice guy" gaslighting woman
"Nice guy" gaslighting woman
"Nice guy" gaslighting woman

And then had the AUDACITY to send this passive aggressive message via Snapchat:

"Nice guy" gaslighting woman

10. This "nice guy," who disgustingly felt entitled to sex as soon as he matched with a woman on a dating app:

"When I 'date' a woman, I'm not putting effort to convince her to have sex with me. I expect her to realize that the very moment I walk in the room"

11. This "nice guy," who believed LGBTQ+ women shouldn't "exist" in the world, and were only "useful" for reproduction:

Man convincing woman that women are only "good for reproduction"
Man convincing woman that women are only "good for reproduction"

12. This "nice guy," who totally crossed the line and "begged" a woman to cheat on her boyfriend, regardless of how many times she declined his "sweet, sweet" offer:

Man "begging" for woman to cheat on her boyfriend
Man "begging" for woman to cheat on her boyfriend
Man "begging" for woman to cheat on her boyfriend

13. This "nice guy," who rudely insulted a woman because she enjoyed being single rather than settling for a man:

Man insulting woman because she loves being single
Man insulting woman because she loves being single

14. This "nice guy," who thought he had the divine right to ask a woman out for drinks because "it was his birthday":

Man upset woman won't let him over because "it's his birthday"
Man upset woman won't let him over because "it's his birthday"

15. This "nice guy," who couldn't fathom that "modern-day women" have the right to make their own dating decisions (even though he's all about "women's rights"):

"You keep picking the bad boys and think they're gonna commit; We men don't take women over 30 divorced or with kids seriously"

16. This "nice guy," who threw degrading insults at a woman over and over and over again when she didn't want to drive him to the airport:

Man upset because woman won't drive him to the airport

17. This "nice guy," who was weirdly offended when a woman he just matched with on Hinge didn't respond to him right away (like...she owed him NOTHING):

Man upset that a woman didn't respond to him right away
Man upset that a woman didn't respond to him right away

18. And this "nice guy," who was shocked when he got rejected by a woman, and defended himself by saying things like, "You being with me is a blessing in your life":

Man guilting a woman for saying "no" to him

In conclusion:

Monica from "Friends:" "I hate men. I hate men!"