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    41 Valentine's Day Gifts That Might Help Make Your Relationship Even Better

    Even if you're already head over heels for each other, there's always room for improvement 😉.

    1. A couple's activity book featuring fun prompts like brainstorming potential matching tattoos and deciding your couples theme song — a must-have for any duo looking to add some lighthearted fun to their day-to-day.

    2. A hair scalp massager you can use to give each other soothing head massages in the shower while also applying shampoo and cleansing your scalps. Sounds like a win-win to me!

    3. A butt mask for a makeshift spa night with a twist the two of you will really get a kick out of — with the added bonus of a smooth booty! Sounds like a win for all.

    4. The I Love Trader Joe's Cookbook complete with 150 recipes, all using ingredients you can pick up at your beloved supermarket. It'll be the perfect gift to get you both inspired to whip up some new meals!

    the cookbook cover
    a crostini with jam and cheese

    Promising review: "For Trader Joe's lovers everywhere, this is a fantastic cookbook! It is filled with hints and tips, shopping guidelines, nicely organized recipe categories, and beautiful mouthwatering pictures. I love how the recipes are noted if they are gluten-free or vegetarian, etc. I ❤ Trader Joe's and I ❤ this cookbook!" —Love My Bookish Life

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $14.99.

    5. A too-cute wireless portable charger that'll quickly become a beloved item for you both — especially if you're both prone to being out and about with a dead phone.

    gif of reviewer holding the pink charger and showing its built-in lightning cable
    hands holding a phone with the white charger plugged into it

    Check out a TikTok of the portable charger in action.  

    Promising review: "The holy grail of portable chargers!!! I was traveling to Disney for vacation and knowing me, I would drain my battery with just taking pictures alone. I wanted a portable battery but didn’t want a carry a cord either, so I was excited when I found this little baby! It does exactly as described, pretty pink color, and I get one full charge of battery for my iPhone 11. Get it, you will not be disappointed!" —Meghan Doble

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $34.99+ (available in six colors). 

    6. A love language card game you two can make a date night out of, perfect for anyone whether you've just started dating *or* known each other forever.

    7. A stainless-steel ring that doubles as a fidget spinner and will keep you both calm, cool, and collected in stressful times. Trust me, even Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson probs need to pause and take a breath once in a while (JK, they're perfect).

    8. A massage roller to apply acupressure on the bothersome parts of your feet and make them feel fantastic so neither of you ever have to give a foot massage again. You're SO welcome.

    9. And a heated massager pillow you can both take turns using after a no good very bad day — no hand cramping necessary.

    the heated massager pillow in black

    10. A 100 Movies Scratch-Off Poster filled with classic films you've always wanted to watch but were never motivated enough to do so. The two of you will spend wayyyy less time scrolling through Netflix now that you have a list of movies to conquer.

    the 100 movie poster

    11. A bidet attachment to help you cut down on the need for toilet paper and ideally avoid that unpleasant moment when you find yourself on *the throne* without any TP in sight and have to embarrassingly call out to your S.O. to rescue you.

    12. A Nespresso machine you and your partner will agree is a great investment once you see how easy it is to make fancy espresso drinks from your own kitchen. Saving money and eliminating grumpy morning moods all at once!

    a reviewers coffee station with the nespresso machine

    13. magnetic meal planner because are you even a couple who lives together if you don't have "the talk" about what to make for dinner all week? This one also has a spot to create an ongoing grocery list!

    A person writing on the notepad stuck to the fridge

    This handy dandy notepad is from Bloom Daily Planners, a woman-owned small business. It features the meal plan on one side and a perforated "shopping list" you can tear off on the other!

    Promising review: "I’ve been starting to get into meal prepping and this planner really helps! I like being able to look up recipes on my phone, then write down whatever ingredients I still need on the grocery list section of this planner. Its being magnetic is cool because you can hang it on the fridge. I love how the grocery list section can be ripped off so you can take it to the store, but the daily meal plans remain on the fridge so you can stay organized. This is a very simple idea, but it’s cute and helps keep me organized and motivated to plan out my meals." —Samantha M.

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Bloom Daily Planners on Amazon for $10.95+ (available in five designs).

    14. The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition book which is filled with scratch-off date ideas that'll add an extra spark to your relationship. It also comes with an instant camera so you can snap a pic, pop it in the book, and cherish the fun memories you make later on.

    15. A stove top pizza oven for the couple who has a standing weekly "Pizza Friday" date — you can mix things up once in a while and try your hand at crafting the perfect pie at home.

    a pizza cooking in the pizza oven, which is sitting on a gas burner

    16. A backlighting kit, a must-have if their gaming screen is in your shared bedroom so you can turn off the overhead lights and get some shut-eye while your partner play 'til their heart's content.

    17. A Baby Brezza Formula Pro Advanced to mix and warm bottles for your little one — it'll make those middle-of-the-night feeding sessions a bit more bearable for you both.

    a baby brezza formula advanced pro
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    The number one item I simply could not live without is the Baby Brezza Formula Pro Advanced. Literally I would happily spend my last penny on this product because it has made that much of a difference in my life. 

    It’s essentially a Keurig for baby bottles. It has the capability of mixing formula with the proper amount of water and dispensing it at the *perfect* temperature for baby. It has a button on it so I can easily choose how many ounces I want for my son’s bottle, depending on how recently he’s eaten sometimes we need only need 2oz instead of 4oz, etc. The bottle settings will stay in place so while my baby is screaming (he gets hangry!) I just have to place a bottle under the dispenser and hit the “start” button. It’s so easy I can literally do it with one hand while holding him. 

    The spout has to be cleaned every four bottles, which I just do with hot water and a paper towel, and the water needs to be refilled once a day (like a Keurig). Other than that, all I have to do is ensure the formula container is filled. My husband set it up like a baby bar cart in the nursery so we don’t have to stumble down our stairs to the kitchen while bleary-eyed and half asleep in the middle of the night. It really is a godsend and I don’t know what I’d do without it! 

    Shipping info:

    From Target: Most packages will deliver within 1–2 days of the estimated delivery date. If you are a Red Card member you will receive free 2-day shipping. 

    From Baby Brezza: Orders typically ship in 1–3 business days.

    Get it from Baby Brezza for $184 (available in three colors and with an extra funnel) or Target for $199.99 (in white).

    18. A glass mug customized with a floral design and their name on it so maybe they'll stop stealing your favorite coffee vessel.

    a glass mug with wild flowers on it and the name "robyn" in script

    19. A shower curtain complete with pockets that'll ensure you each have more than enough room for the many products that have found their way into your bathing routine — no more fighting for counter space.

    a cloth shower curtain with mesh pockets

    20. A decision coin with both of your names on it that'll make it easier than ever to decide who gets to choose where to order dinner from, who has to take out the trash, or who has to get up next with the baby.

    three wooden coins each one says "whose turn will it be?" with a name in the middle

    21. A magical hair catcher to save your relationship and keep your shower looking cleaner than ever.

    22. An ever-popular Instant Pot with so many uses you'll need to take a deep breath before deciding what to make with it first — you won't find yourselves bickering over whose turn it is to cook dinner.

    23. A fill-in-the-blank What I Love About Us book you can buy two of so each of you can fill out what you love most about the other — it'll be a nice reminder the next time your partner "forgets" to use a coaster on the new coffee table or sneezes without covering their mouth.

    The book cover

    24. A breakfast sandwich maker for those rainy Sunday mornings where all you both want is a cure to your hangovers but can't physically venture farther than the kitchen. You'll both thank me later for this one.

    25. A bottle of Poo-Pourri starring a best-selling citrus scent that'll make sharing a bathroom *stink* a whole lot less — literally.

    a spray bottle of citrus poo-pourri

    26. And a Squatty Potty to help *move things along* for anyone who typically takes forever in the bathroom.

    an acrylic squatty potty beneath a toilet

    27. A see-through chemise baby doll that'll have your partner shouting "DAYUMMM!" the moment you enter the room.

    a model in the lace lingerie in navy