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    19 Ways To Tell If Your Friend Is Truly Your BFF

    Do you snapchat them on the toilet?

    1. You can be gross with them.

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    Would you own up to a fart in front of them? Would you tell them you're going to poop? Would you send them a snapchat while on the toilet? If the answer is yes, then they are good BFF material.

    2. They tell you all the goss.

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    Even the goss they're not meant to? Even if the person who told them explicitly said not to tell you? Good.

    3. They can handle drunk you.

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    A true BFF will not judge when you have one too many, they will not patronise. They will care for you, feed you junk food, and pretend to agree with all your drunk logic.

    4. And hungover you.

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    Once the morning comes they will laugh at you, but bring you water and more junk food. And they will try to avoid spelling out in detail all the horrible shame-inducing things you said.

    5. They know your whole family.


    They should probably be Facebook friends with your mum, unless you're not Facebook friends with your mum, in which case they will agree with you that people who are Facebook friends with their mums are weird.

    6. They can tell when you're upset.

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    They can see through your brave face.

    7. They known when to leave you alone.

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    They don't judge you for needing alone time, and they don't take it personally. And when you're ready for that hug, they'll be there too.

    8. They give you tough love.

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    It takes a BFF to tell you "you fucked up this time." But that's still OK, and they still love you.

    9. They hate the same people you hate.

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    There is no great feeling than introducing your BFF to someone you hate, and without telling them they tell you they hate them too. That's true love.

    10. And love the same people you love.


    You probably both stalk the same people on Facebook. And then send each other updates when they do something exciting.

    11. They will probably know a secret about you no one else in the world knows.

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    It's probably mundane and pretty gross. Like that it was actually you that vomited behind the fridge at Tom's party in 2009.

    12. You have a zillion in-jokes.

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    And only one or two are actually funny, the others are just habit.

    13. You've fought in the past, but are completely over it now.

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    Preach Kelly.

    14. They could recite your romantic history as well as you could.

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    And they have an opinion on most chapters.

    15. You have been on holiday together and not wanted to kill each other.

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    It really helps if you get hungry/sleepy at the same time.

    16. They have made a sacrifice for you.

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    Did they not invite your ex to their party, even though it would make it awkward with them? Did they leave a party they were having fun at because you were puking? If so they are excellent BFF material.

    17. You can hang in the same room, in silence, and be totally relaxed.


    Probably both stalking the same person on Facebook at the same time.

    18. They will always be your 11th like on Instagram.

    19. You wanna hang out with them right now.

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    And remind them of that secret that you know that no one else knows. And tell them something they said when they were drunk. And bitch about that person. And tell them something gross. And tell them they're your BFF.

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