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    • flgurl84

      I’m recently going through this. 2 years ago I was going through a divorce, so I was the single, childless one of my group. Other 2 bfs are married with kids. We lived about 5 minutes from each other, and bc I was single n childless ( evidently this means I lack any real responsibility and things in my life aren’t as crucial/important as theirs) I could always drop everything, change my schedule to fit around theirs and always go to there houses. I lived in my apartment for 1.5 yrs and they came over once.
      Fast forward to today. I moved about 20 minutes out of town and only one of my allegedly bffs could come over for about an hour. Wanting to preserve the friendship, I’ve still catered to them, saying whenever you want to plan a girls day/ night, let me know, I’ll make the time, I’ll drive to you. That has yet to happen. I haven’t seen either of them in 3 months. I get the expected holiday text, “happy hope your doing well!” well, if you actually wanted to be an active part of my life, you would know if I’m doing well or not.
      They like to play the whole ” we are so busy with our adult lives, so I don’t have time to be active friends with you, but since we’ve been friends for so long, you should just still want to treat me like I’m a caring person in your life, and i sure hope you can make my kids birthday party, he’s registered at target.” I did not attend these toddlers parties. Neither bff could find sitter for my birthday dinner.
      I used to be at one friend house 3x a week, we would cook dinner, drink some adult bevs, play with the kids, and hang out once they were in bed. Then she decided that they would have “family” dinners every night, and I basically wasn’t invited. Her text literally read, we have family dinners every night, but I guess you can come too. I’ve yet to accept my pity invitation.
      The other friend only wants to throw big parties a few times a month. In not interested in being friends with all her other friends or her husband’s friends. As an introvert I need some one on one face time to consider a person a friend. Meanwhile, I don’t want to update my best friend, and her 10 other friends in personal happenings in my life. Things I would be ok telling my best friend, but not to express myself at a party of 20+ ppl.
      Also, I’m not included in a lot of “family” outings. I was left out of a family beach day on 4th of July last year. I guess cuz i don’t have a family I’m not cool enough.
      So I have moved on, and have a very good close friend that lives in my neighborhood . She is a mommy n wife, but still makes time for a once a week girls night. But I do still cater to her. I’ve lived in my new home for 1.5 yrs and she has never been to my house. I guess having kids gives people free reign to dump their friends, not put any effort in but still expect to be treated as like they are still close with you.
      I do feel better that I am not putting in all the effort with people that like to use their busy adult lives to be shit friends.

    • flgurl84

      A week ago, I was pmsing. It was a rough week at work and decided a few adult bevs were in order. A few lemon vodkas and grapefruit later, my boyfriend n I are watching tv relaxing, n I’m bebopping in the kitchen, chopping fresh veggies to jazz up our frozen pizza for dinner. Just sharpened my knives n I sliced a chunk off my thumb, its bleeding. For some reason I didn’t want to tell him, didnt realize it was as bad as it was n try to stop the bleeding with just some tp. 5 mins later, I come to him, crying like a fool asking him to help me cuz I cut my thumb n I couldnt get it to stop. He did, n like the good man he is, didn’t question my crying. Next day I got my period n it all made sense. I had a good laugh at myself tho. I’m pretty independent n don’t like asking for help, n I guess my inability to put a bandaide on by myself, in conjunction with flo hormones thru me off the deep end. My actual words thru tears sounded like a 3 yr old. Can u help me sniff sniff. I can’t get it to stop sniff sniff haaaaa

    • flgurl84

      This was great. I developed girl crushes on all the subjects, they were gorgeous btw. I personally, as a straight married women, enjoy lesbian porn. Straight porn is all about a huge porn penis, just pounding its subject. Ouch. I enjoy watching two women because they actually seem to understand what is pleasurable. But lesbian porn to a lesbian, yea I can see how they would think it’s fake. I’ve only watched those nails, but only experienced nubby man nails in person. That one girl,who stated continuous motions,circles or shapes. ……spot on.

    • flgurl84

      I’ve got an obnoxiously big butt for a white girl. I’m a relatively attractive girl, of Italian decent, long dark hair and round was, men just cannot contain themselves. I usually get a long, drawn out “damn” from the pussy men, but some guys will come up to me and tell how beautiful I am. I just smile, take the compliment and tell then than you, my husband thinks so too and walk away. I don’t mind the positive cat calls. Its the ones that are in total shock of my ass. Yes it’s huge I know I truck it around all day with me. How did I get it, years of love for Twinkies and ramen noodles and limited gym time. And my Lithuania mother. The end

    • flgurl84

      I’m not trying to be a complete brat like Jordan h. But I swear nick is my husband. I’ve been saying it from the first episode. My husband is hostile angry and has the same Mr visit tendencies, yet he fixes things correctly. But it’s so funny and again not trying to make you all jealous, but I have received that kiss. I have gotten that crouch thing that nick did at, :18 of the video in this article. I watched this episode 2x too. Yay nick. Made me fall in love with my hubby all over again

    • flgurl84

      I lived in wtby for 15 years, I was born there in 84, my parents and grandparents were born there. I drove by that 50ft cross almost everyday of my life. I remember begging my parents to take me up there. Of course they did not, and evidently it closed the year I was born, which I never knew. In fact I think that was the excuse my patents gave me, that it was closed. Guess it wasn’t an excuse. When I lived in CT I went to a catholic school from k-freshman year, and a bible themed park wouldn’t have seemed weird then. Now, it definitely does. Wow this was such a blast from my past. I never knew anything about holy land. Those pics are creepy. And yes vandalism was everywhere in Waterbury. Not just holy land. No highway over hang was safe. Oh Waterbury you were a special city. I can’t say I miss you. Thanks buzzfeed for the memories.