@eboe A choice made under duress is not a choice, genius. It’s not at all like being ace. One is about one’s bodily autonomy, and the other is about emotionally dragging someone else through your own journey that was not part of any original agreement. The alternative is not seeing…Â
In 2019, my wife of 5 years told me she was polyamorous and said she would be monogamous for me. Around the same time, there was this guy she thought was cute and she told a friend of hers that I would just have to deal with them dating. So I did. Broke up with him but dated another…Â
I do not need to love myself or even think that I have any value to be kind and loving and think that others have value. That’s the core of depression right there. To say that I have to love myself to truly love someone else is crap: that encourages a cycle of feeling worthless, in…Â
Sassy words! You must be a Slytherin. But seriously: this is very true. People who love things are dumb. I can’t stand Sherlock Holmes fans, myself. Glorifying sociopathy and drug use? And that pipe is just tacky. Ugh. Grow up, am I right?
Only those who do not know are insistent that men used to go to war and are now soft. I went to war when I was a boy. I came back still a boy, but with two fewer friends. We found most of one, and the leg of the other. The rest was red mist and chicken feed. You have no fucking clue…Â
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