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These Are The Hardest 'Would You Rather' Questions For Anyone Planning Their Dream Wedding

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  1. 1. Would you rather

    Have a destination wedding with only your closest friends and family?
    Via @junebugweddings/Instagram
    Have a destination wedding with only your closest friends and family?
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    Have a giant wedding at home with everyone you've ever known?
    Via @ellebwellington/Instagram
    Have a giant wedding at home with everyone you've ever known?
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1. Would you rather
  1. Have a destination wedding with only your closest friends and family?
     
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    Have a destination wedding with only your closest friends and family?
  2. Have a giant wedding at home with everyone you've ever known?
     
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    Have a giant wedding at home with everyone you've ever known?
  1. 2. Would you rather

    Spend all your money on a luxurious dream wedding?
    Via @brightlightimagephotography/Instagram
    Spend all your money on a luxurious dream wedding?
    Via @brightlightimagephotography/Instagram
    Save all your money to buy your dream house?
    Via @propertygrams/Instagram
    Save all your money to buy your dream house?
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2. Would you rather
  1. Spend all your money on a luxurious dream wedding?
     
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    Spend all your money on a luxurious dream wedding?
  2. Save all your money to buy your dream house?
     
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    Save all your money to buy your dream house?
  1. 3. Would you rather

    Have someone pay for your entire wedding?
    Via @conventoannunciata/Instagram
    Have someone pay for your entire wedding?
    Via @conventoannunciata/Instagram
    Have someone pay for your entire honeymoon?
    Via @beautifulretreats/Instagram
    Have someone pay for your entire honeymoon?
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3. Would you rather
  1. Have someone pay for your entire wedding?
     
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    Have someone pay for your entire wedding?
  2. Have someone pay for your entire honeymoon?
     
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    Have someone pay for your entire honeymoon?
  1. 4. Would you rather

    Have someone plan your entire wedding?
    Via @lilacandwhite/Instagram
    Have someone plan your entire wedding?
    Via @lilacandwhite/Instagram
    Plan the whole wedding by yourself?
    Via @amynicholsse/Instagram
    Plan the whole wedding by yourself?
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4. Would you rather
  1. Have someone plan your entire wedding?
     
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    Have someone plan your entire wedding?
  2. Plan the whole wedding by yourself?
     
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    Plan the whole wedding by yourself?
  1. 5. Would you rather

    Decide the guest list yourself?
    Via @mapletonestudio/Instagram
    Decide the guest list yourself?
    Via @mapletonestudio/Instagram
    Have your partner decide the guest list?
    Via @samrizzofloraldesigner/Instagram
    Have your partner decide the guest list?
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5. Would you rather
  1. Decide the guest list yourself?
     
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    Decide the guest list yourself?
  2. Have your partner decide the guest list?
     
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    Have your partner decide the guest list?
  1. 6. Would you rather

    Have a closed guest list?
    Via @helloimstar/Instagram
    Have a closed guest list?
    Via @helloimstar/Instagram
    Allow every guest to bring a plus one?
    Via @vpweddingstationery/Instagram
    Allow every guest to bring a plus one?
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6. Would you rather
  1. Have a closed guest list?
     
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    Have a closed guest list?
  2. Allow every guest to bring a plus one?
     
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    Allow every guest to bring a plus one?
  1. 7. Would you rather

    Allow kids at your wedding?
    Via @miramandic/Instagram
    Allow kids at your wedding?
    Via @miramandic/Instagram
    Have absolutely zero kids at your wedding?
    Via @mr_and_mrs_wedding_photography/Instagram
    Have absolutely zero kids at your wedding?
    Via @mr_and_mrs_wedding_photography/Instagram

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7. Would you rather
  1. Allow kids at your wedding?
     
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    Allow kids at your wedding?
  2. Have absolutely zero kids at your wedding?
     
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    Have absolutely zero kids at your wedding?
  1. 8. Would you rather

    Have a really big wedding party?
    Via @azarphotography_/Instagram
    Have a really big wedding party?
    Via @azarphotography_/Instagram
    Only have family in your wedding party?
    Via @aideenw08/Instagram
    Only have family in your wedding party?
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8. Would you rather
  1. Have a really big wedding party?
     
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    Have a really big wedding party?
  2. Only have family in your wedding party?
     
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    Only have family in your wedding party?
  1. 9. Would you rather

    Have an expensive ring?
    Via @freedbaby/Instagram
    Have an expensive ring?
    Via @freedbaby/Instagram
    Have an expensive dress/tux?
    Via @bylillianwest/Instagram
    Have an expensive dress/tux?
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9. Would you rather
  1. Have an expensive ring?
     
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    Have an expensive ring?
  2. Have an expensive dress/tux?
     
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    Have an expensive dress/tux?
  1. 10. Would you rather

    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same dress?
    Via @bailey.t.hurley
    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same dress?
    Via @bailey.t.hurley
    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same color?
    Via @junebugweddings/Instagram
    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same color?
    Via @junebugweddings/Instagram

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10. Would you rather
  1. Make all your bridesmaids wear the same dress?
     
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    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same dress?
  2. Make all your bridesmaids wear the same color?
     
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    Make all your bridesmaids wear the same color?
  1. 11. Would you rather

    Only buy flowers for the wedding party?
    Via @katysphotographyks/Instagram
    Only buy flowers for the wedding party?
    Via @katysphotographyks/Instagram
    Have flowers literally everywhere?
    Via @victoriaclausenflorals/Instagram
    Have flowers literally everywhere?
    Via @victoriaclausenflorals/Instagram

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11. Would you rather
  1. Only buy flowers for the wedding party?
     
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    Only buy flowers for the wedding party?
  2. Have flowers literally everywhere?
     
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    Have flowers literally everywhere?
  1. 12. Would you rather

    Have catered food from a 5 star restaurant?
    Via @emilybotham/Instagram
    Have catered food from a 5 star restaurant?
    Via @emilybotham/Instagram
    Have a bunch of different food trucks outside the venue?
    Via @bluemonkeyice/Instagram
    Have a bunch of different food trucks outside the venue?
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12. Would you rather
  1. Have catered food from a 5 star restaurant?
     
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    Have catered food from a 5 star restaurant?
  2. Have a bunch of different food trucks outside the venue?
     
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    Have a bunch of different food trucks outside the venue?
  1. 13. Would you rather

    Spend money on one enormous cake?
    Via Getty Images
    Spend money on one enormous cake?
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    Spend money on a dessert buffet to satisfy everyone's tastes?
    Via @castellaevents/Instagram
    Spend money on a dessert buffet to satisfy everyone's tastes?
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13. Would you rather
  1. Spend money on one enormous cake?
     
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    Spend money on one enormous cake?
  2. Spend money on a dessert buffet to satisfy everyone's tastes?
     
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    Spend money on a dessert buffet to satisfy everyone's tastes?
  1. 14. Would you rather

    Recite personal vows?
    Via @raetay_photography/Instagram
    Recite personal vows?
    Via @raetay_photography/Instagram
    Recite scripted vows?
    Via @murphyweddings/Instagram
    Recite scripted vows?
    Via @murphyweddings/Instagram

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14. Would you rather
  1. Recite personal vows?
     
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    Recite personal vows?
  2. Recite scripted vows?
     
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    Recite scripted vows?
  1. 15. Would you rather

    Pay for an open bar?
    Via @jenlee.me
    Pay for an open bar?
    Via @jenlee.me
    Pay for a coffee bar?
    Via @twc_co/Instagram
    Pay for a coffee bar?
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15. Would you rather
  1. Pay for an open bar?
     
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    Pay for an open bar?
  2. Pay for a coffee bar?
     
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    Pay for a coffee bar?
  1. 16. Would you rather

    Have Beyonce sing at your wedding?
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    Have Beyonce sing at your wedding?
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    Have Beyonce officiate your wedding?
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    Have Beyonce officiate your wedding?
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16. Would you rather
  1. Have Beyonce sing at your wedding?
     
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    Have Beyonce sing at your wedding?
  2. Have Beyonce officiate your wedding?
     
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    Have Beyonce officiate your wedding?
  1. 17. Would you rather

    Only have professional photos of your wedding?
    Via @rebeccalaure/Instagram
    Only have professional photos of your wedding?
    Via @rebeccalaure/Instagram
    Only have professional video of your wedding?
    Via @redmarkpictures/Instagram
    Only have professional video of your wedding?
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17. Would you rather
  1. Only have professional photos of your wedding?
     
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    Only have professional photos of your wedding?
  2. Only have professional video of your wedding?
     
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    Only have professional video of your wedding?

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