19 Things You Know When You're The Messy One In Your Relationship
"How do I turn the vacuum on again?"
If you live alone your place looks like this:
But if you live with your SO, your place has stuff like this:
You're always *saying* you'll tidy a mess.
But after a couple of weeks, your partner just gives up and does it for you.
That can be a problem, because your brand of organisation is having a messy pile of stuff.
And you get really cranky if your partner tidies it...
Because you have a SYSTEM, goddamnit!
Your partner often gets stuck doing the dishes.
But they can pretty much chill before the meal because you probably love to cook.
Laundry is their sole responsibility.
You use "I don't like messy stuff" as an excuse not to tidy.
And "you're just better at it than me" as an excuse to ask them to do it.
You spend a lot of time just praying they won't look under the couch/bed/chair.
You have literally no idea where your cleaning products are stored.
You probably have never bought cleaning products in your life, lbh.
You have occasionally TRIED to be tidier.
And somehow that makes it so much worse.
You definitely feel guilty for your tidiness deficiency.
But mostly you just feel grateful to have found the tidy yin to your messy yang.
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