Buzz·Posted on 13 Oct 201519 Things You Know When You're The Messy One In Your Relationship"How do I turn the vacuum on again?"by Chelsey PippinBuzzFeed Staff, UKLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. If you live alone your place looks like this: View this photo on Instagram 2. But if you live with your SO, your place has stuff like this: 3. You're always *saying* you'll tidy a mess. 4. But after a couple of weeks, your partner just gives up and does it for you. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. That can be a problem, because your brand of organisation is having a messy pile of stuff. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. And you get really cranky if your partner tidies it... View this photo on Instagram 7. Because you have a SYSTEM, goddamnit! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Your partner often gets stuck doing the dishes. View this photo on Instagram 9. But they can pretty much chill before the meal because you probably love to cook. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Laundry is their sole responsibility. View this photo on Instagram 11. You use "I don't like messy stuff" as an excuse not to tidy. 12. And "you're just better at it than me" as an excuse to ask them to do it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. You spend a lot of time just praying they won't look under the couch/bed/chair. View this photo on Instagram 14. You have literally no idea where your cleaning products are stored. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. You probably have never bought cleaning products in your life, lbh. 16. You have occasionally TRIED to be tidier. 17. And somehow that makes it so much worse. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 18. You definitely feel guilty for your tidiness deficiency. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. But mostly you just feel grateful to have found the tidy yin to your messy yang. View this photo on Instagram