He makes dinner every night. If I’m having a bad day, he’ll have everything ready with a drink for me when I walk in the door. I leave snacks and notes for him at the door when he comes home late from work.
You’re not alone! I swear this subject comes up every day almost in my life. I’ve heard all the regular responses. “You’ll want them later” “you’ll change your mind!” “You’re going to end up having x kids!” It’s very frustrating because I have never had a maternal instinct. I do not feel that I would be a very good mother. And I don’t feel like I should bring another life in the world just because thats what people think women should do when they get married. There are so many other things I want to accomplish and they don’t include children.