Have you ever seen your partner do something completely nonsexual, but it made you go "ooh dang" nonetheless?
You're not alone: Reddit u/LorryToTheFace asked, "What is something nonsexual that your partner does that really turns you on?" and there were a ton of very specific responses. Here are some of the most upvoted ones:
1."Whispering something in my ear, especially when we're amongst others."
2."He loves to wash my hair. Sometimes he’ll jump in the shower with me and the way he so tenderly makes sure to get every strand, even behind my ears... It makes me feel like the most adored and precious thing on the planet."
7."Gardening. She comes in the house all sweaty and covered in dirt, her hair a bit disheveled and she smells like wet earth. Plus watching her bent over the vegetable garden gives me plenty of amazing views."
8."When she just looks at me and smiles. My fiancé is beyond beautiful to me, all the damn time, and it doesn’t matter if she’s dressed to the nines or in her pyjamas with a sloppy ponytail, the second she smiles at me the rest of the world falls away!"
11."Being an awesome dad. He plays with our son, the little one's face lights up like a Christmas tree, they laugh like crazy. I observe from the other side of the room, my heart gets filled with love, but in my mind we are all alone, and I'm stripping him down already."
12."When she does physical work or a workout. She positively glows after and I wanna put the kids to bed or send them to grandma's or just turn the TV on real loud..."
14."When he’s working on my car. He’s all dirty and rolling around on the creeper... I just wanna hop on top and ride him into the sunset... like DAMNNNN BABEEEEE HOWWW ARE YOU SO FINEEEE."
15."My ex would take my hoodies and wear them with her PJs. IDK why, she would insist on MY hoodies but watching her bundle up on the couch all comfy cozy was just too adorable."
23."He has a cat and will periodically proclaim 'ARE YOU A GOOD BOY? Yes.' to his cat. Out of nowhere. He also pays a ton of attention to my cats when he’s at my place. I LOVE that he just genuinely cares about other critters."
26."Chatting up strangers in foreign languages. He’s super outgoing and won’t hesitate to talk to people even if his grasp on the language isn’t perfect. Even makes Dutch sound sexy."
27."I know this will be weird but I love it when my woman starts talking shit when she plays online games. It's [the] biggest turn on for me, she can even talk shit to me and it'll turn me on."
28."I’ll say I want to go to some place one day or have a flower garden in our yard or a whole wall for my books and he says so confidently, 'You will.' We’re kinda poor at the moment so some of the things that I’m excited about are kind of a stretch, but I find it very sweet and endearing that he is so sure and determined that I will have everything I want."
Do you have an example of a nonsexual thing your partner does that turns you on? Let us know in the comments and your suggestion might be featured in a future BuzzFeed post!
