In a heated discussion on a park bench, Shoshanna pulls out a self-help book that dispenses dating advice for "the ladies." "But who are 'the ladies?'" Hannah asks. I'm a lady, she's a lady, you're a lady, we're the ladies," argues Shoshanna. "I'm not the ladies," says Jessa. Are YOU the ladies? Who can say for sure?
Lesson: Best not to tell people they're part of some vague cultural group. Especially if they're angsty hipsters who are having nearly constant identity crises.