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Kristen Bell Tweeted Out A List Of Things That Keep Her Marriage Going And I'm So Emotional, Guys

"Know that everyone is doing the best with what they've got."

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Well, today Bell posted a list she wrote for a pair of engaged friends about what keeps her marriage so healthy, and it's truly wonderful:

I was writing a note 2 friends who were getting hitched. I wrote congratulations then thought "Kristen! Arent u old…

For real, guys, I'm emotional because this is so simple and pure.

Kristen Bell / Via Twitter: @IMKristenBell

"Vulnerability always begets connection and intimacy. Stay vulnerable with each other.

In 10 years, when the dopamine has waned, remember: Life is a crazy ride. It's a privilege to go through it with a partner.

Take necessary separateness. It will make your marriage better.

Loving someone despite their faults, failings, or character defects is the most powerful loving thing you can do.

Rejoice in what makes the other person happy, and allow them their individual interests.

Know that everyone is doing the best they can with what they've got. So get a bigger emotional toolbox to fix your problems."


And people are LOVING her genuine honesty about how difficult love can be sometimes.

Girl knows what she's talking about.

Like, her friends are super lucky, because she really took the time to give some great advice.

"Know that everyone's doing the best they can with what they've got" Love this.

Plus, quick side note: that penmanship, though!

@IMKristenBell @daxshepard1 22 years of marriage makes me think this is perfect!! And if that is actually your hand…