Not denying the fact that’s she is beautiful, but that’s not at all what this is about. Even if she were, in your opinion, the ugliest woman in the world, that still wouldn’t give anyone the right to say that her husband should be looking elsewhere (not that that was your message). Judging anyone based on their looks alone is unfair regardless of whether anyone else thinks they look great or terrible. And just to be clear I am addressing a societal issue and not trying to attack you personally. I’ll get off my soapbox now.