Buzz·Posted on Aug 13, 201521 Dating Worries That Keep Shy People Up At Night(((Silence intensifies.)))by Alex AlvarezBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Your first thought when you have a crush is usually "OH GOD, NO." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. You do NOT stalk online; you're MERELY figuring out your crush's interests without having to actually talk. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. You have seriously considered trying to telepathically tell your crush you like them. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. You're always looking for, and missing, opportunities to talk to 'em. Paulo Breva @paulobreva That moment when you miss a 16 hour opportunity to ask someone out because you're just too damn shy. #facepalm #shy #shyproblems 02:49 PM - 04 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 5. You've actually spent way too much time rehearsing the right thing to say. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. You're afraid your crush will think you're boring because you're so quiet in person. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. ...Or just super flustered and awkward. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Plus, you're much better at talking to your crush online than in person. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. But then there's the issue of getting their information in the FIRST place. NikesSpikes @Joelle_Jenkins When you really want his snapchat but you're too shy to ask for it 😪 #ShyProblems 11:43 PM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 10. So it takes you a liiiittle bit long to actually let your crush know you're interested. 11. You worry that, once they get to know you, they'll be weirded out by the difference. 12. And you're terrified of seeming too quiet meeting their friends, because you feel you HAVE to impress them! 13. And meeting their family? OH GOD, THE PRESSURE. 14. You're way too afraid of messing up what you meant to say. meg ❣ @_megancoyle I cannot say one sentence w/o fucking it up #shyproblems 11:51 PM - 06 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Your face great tongue like! I mean... 15. And if you see 'em out with a group of people, forget it. You'll be standing outside the circle, not talking. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. And when they compliment you, you don't know how to deal. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Whenever your pookie schnookums wants to take a picture together, you want to flee. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 18. And forget about trying to set a thirst trap with a selfie. View this photo on Instagram 19. If you blush, you become nervous that your date KNOWS when you're feeling shy. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 20. And, if you're dating a fellow shy person, going out to an event together usually means ONLY talking to each other. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 21. And people actually think "don't be shy" is actually good dating advice. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Just remember: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Even if it takes you a little longer than most... Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF ...You'll get there. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF