Here Are 9 AITA Submissions From The Holiday Season Where Both People Were Declared The A-Hole — Now You Have To Decide Who's The Bigger A-Hole

"My mother-in-law decided to tell my 13-year-old daughter that she didn't get as many gifts as her brother and that we spent less on her to try to get our daughter to believe that we loved her less."

In case you haven't heard of r/AmItheAsshole, it's a subreddit where people post real-life conflicts they had and ask Reddit users to tell them if they were in the wrong or not.

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After some time and plenty of feedback from redditors, a badge is added to the post that declares whether the person who posted the story is the asshole or not. But if it's decided that all parties in the story are assholes, an "Everyone Sucks" is added instead.

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For this poll, I've grabbed nine posts about holiday-related drama that were ruled "Everyone Sucks," and I'm forcing you to choose a side! I believe that there's always one person who's just a liiiiiiitle bit more of the asshole in the situation, and I want you to tell me who that is.

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1. "AITA for telling my parents to pick between me and my sister for the holidays?"

2. "AITA if I opt out of Thanksgiving with my parents because my brother and new wife (who left me out of their wedding) will be there?"

3. "AITA for saying that my kids can never be around my mother-in-law's husband after what he did at Thanksgiving?"

4. "AITA for putting my foot down and not allowing my mother-in-law to come for Christmas?"

5. "AITA for saying I won’t come to Christmas at my in-laws if I can’t wear a hat?"

6. "AITA for telling my wife she ruined Christmas?"

7. "AITA for refusing to host New Year's?"

8. "AITA for making my partner decide whether he wants to go to a New Year's Eve party with me or nicotine?"

9. "AITA for 'stealing' a dress from my mother-in-law and wearing it to her New Year's Eve party?"

Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.