Buzz·Posted on Dec 23, 201419 Moments Every Big Family Experiences Each Holiday SeasonTime to decide who is going to sit at the kid's table.by Lara ParkerBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. When you realize that some cousins' S.O. is in attendance but you can’t for the life of you remember which cousin it is. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. When you're super hungry and run to get in the front of the line before you remember that grandma and grandpa go first. View this photo on Instagram 3. The tough decision process of who will be sitting at the kid's table. View this photo on Instagram 4. When someone drinks too much wine and starts yelling about politics. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. The defining moment when someone gets up the courage to be the first for seconds. View this photo on Instagram 6. The pause between dinner and dessert when someone starts telling the classic story about your aunts and uncles as children. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. The seemingly neverending wait for dessert. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. The moment of truth in testing out the intricate gift exchange strategy. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. The intense struggle of trying to fit the entire family in just one room. View this photo on Instagram 10. The moment you realize you haven't even spoken to several people all night because they got lost in the crowd. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 11. The attempt to corral all the cousins together for a family picture. View this photo on Instagram 12. And then the rush to figure out who is going to take the picture. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. The moment of sheer panic when you realize one table has dinner rolls and the other doesn't. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. When you're called the same name as your cousins because there's just too many of you to keep track. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. The inevitable diaster after gift exchange has ended and you can no longer see the floor. View this photo on Instagram 16. The stressful trip to the grocery store before family dinner in an effort to meet everyone's dietary needs. View this photo on Instagram 17. And becoming creative as heck trying to fit all the presents under the tree. View this photo on Instagram 18. The moment it's time to leave and you awkwardly hug every single person in attendance and it ends up taking two hours. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. And of course, the moment you realize you wouldn't have it any other way. View this photo on Instagram