As someone who went from skinny little kid to HUGE McBIGLARGE in a single year in elementary school and having been that way since then i so Understand this. and yeah i have had a lot of this happen but and i did not have the advantage of coming out in a lovely Progressive world. I did so in a back water podunk school. yet even then there was only one person that got on me about being gay. One. who was gay. EVERYONE got on me about being fat. I must have done every stupid fad diet ever back then. Grapefruit 45 and slimfast and all those. ended up trying to starve myself thin. none of it worked of course. made me fatter than ever. then i see these people saying well chasers are everywhere. Yes and No. they are there. and in a strange twist i have been told by a few of them how much better i would look if i GAINED more weight. that i was not big enough. but i am too big to be a bear and certainly do not have the muscles for it. also strangely because of the stand i took in highschool of making myself proud of who i was huge wise and putting down the haters harder than they could me it made me this Very Odd One out in gay world. I did not have shame for my size. What the hell is wrong with him. of course i kinda do now but that is from a LOT of things including that dropping 150lbs has honestly made me hate what i look like. even though i am still overweight. and i know i will never have the body people thought was hiding under all this. Also people have become increasingly cruel to the point i hate leaving the house a LOT because of the shit i have gotten from the public in general. after all fat hating is one of the last of the socially OK things to do hate wise.