Marshalls3 ,You mean to tell me you never had sexual desires before 16? I was going to say before college, but for you, let’s just say 16(I don’t want to assume you had any desire to learn or grow as a human being past the age the government requires). Is your recommendation to sleep with both men and women to figure it out? When is the right age to know what sex you want to get it on with? If a boy comes to you and says he finds a girl hot at age 12 are you going to say “now wait a minute, you might like boys in 5 years, let’s just wait and see before you commit to being straight”? I had desires for dudes at age 12 and hated myself for 10 years for those feelings until I finally realized it was not my fault and there was nothing I could do to prevent the feelings (trust me, I tried). There is nothing cool about being gay and different as a kid. You really should refrain from speaking about this topic because you have no idea what you are talking about. Yes, this is my polite way of saying “Shut The FU#$ UP”.Don’t bother replying to this, I won’t read it.