ElectricMayhem

That's metal af

My mother's cousin and his wife are the sweetest, weirdest people in the world. His wife has always felt bad because their branch of the family inherited a lot of family heirlooms from my mother's side (jewelry, keepsakes, etc), even though no one was ever upset about it and we have… Read More

Ugh, just don't put your hands on women without their permission it's not that f*cking difficult. #teamgigi

I worked at BBW for 6 years, and I will say that unfortunately most of their stuff on eBay is stolen merch. The company has a surprisingly huge problem with people who shoplift and then fence on eBay once stuff sells out or gets discontinued. There are whole organized rings of jack… Read More

I buy that one in bulk and keep it in my wall plug-ins year round.

Lavender Leaves by Henri Bendel and Marshmallow Fireside by good old Bath

And you're right about Tiana, Merida, and of course Frozen, by the way. All less than a decade old, though, which is why in my original comment I mentioned that things are changing. Mulan is pretty much the notable exception as she is from before the mid-2000s and is of course a badass.… Read More

.....but in the end of The Little Mermaid the evil witch is defeated when the handsome Prince literally runs her body through with a giant phallus and the Ariel's dad gives her legs/a vagina again? You're right, she totally saved the day.

You should totally be comfortable in your own skin, everyone should. But it's a mistake to base part of your confidence on some idea that other girls all suck and you're somehow better/cooler/smarter/whatever than they are. You don't need to do that. You're most likely good enough… Read More

I see where you're coming from, but I think the problem that the women quoted are trying to draw attention to is the fact that girls get socialized on purpose from a very early age to think of each other as competition. Look at fairy tales, for instance. Things are finally changing,… Read More