I am adopted and can totally relate. I do feel like some of you with the fact he might sound angry but there’s a shit load of emotions that come from being adopted. My adoptive mom had all good intentions but had personal problems of her own so I was on my own since 14. I was super angry when I found out I was adopted (18) because I felt like my first mom didn’t want me and neither did the second one. But I grew up (im 30) and realized I could of been worse off and sucked it up. So alot of people going thru this and “growing up” will have different feelings about adoption throughout thier life. So if he sounds angry its no big deal. Its just a process. Maybe he is sick of all the questions. Personally I don’t mind them. But to the guy who said are you wearing a hat telling everybody your adopted remark. Most people don’t look like thier adoptive parents so uh yeah there will be questions… Thanks for writing this. I liked it and all the comments!