21 Things Dudes Seriously Need To Stop Doing On Tinder

    No, I don't want to be part of your threesome.

    Anna Kopsky
    by Anna Kopsky

    BuzzFeed Staff

    We asked the ladies of BuzzFeed Community what their Tinder deal breakers are. Here are their eye-opening responses.

    1. One major deal breaker is only posting group photos — so everyone has to guess which one you are.

    Little Brown & Co.

    "I'm not on here to play 'Where's Waldo,' people."

    —jeunellejuarez

    2. Putting in the absolute minimal effort into your "About Me" section — or putting in no effort at all.

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    "It's a total turnoff when there's no punctuation in someone's profile and messages. Or when their bio is blank! How am I supposed to spark a conversation?"

    —Mumbi Okundaye, Facebook

    3. Using the Kesha and Pitbull lyric "It's going down, I'm yelling Tinder..."

    Universal Pictures

    "That, and 'Looking for my Tinderella.' It's dead. Stop."

    —Rox Cee, Facebook

    4. Not having a sense of humor.

    5. Posting shirtless mirror pics.

    CBS Films

    "OK, maybe a pic of you and your friends at the beach is acceptable. But the 'flexing in the mirror' thing HAS to stop."

    —ahoylorena

    6. Or not posting any photos at all.

    7. Being a walking contradiction. If you have a Bible verse in your bio with a photo of you in a "Show me your tits" shirt, you deserve an eye roll.

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    "How does anyone think those two things together in a profile make sense?"

    —Kelsey McMullen, Facebook

    8. Using your old wedding photos as your profile picture.

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    "I'm always seriously confused. Are you STILL married, or are you on here because you aren't anymore? Does your current wife know? WHAT IS THE STORY?"

    —Kate McGarry, Facebook

    9. Guys, please stop posting pictures holding a giant fish. WHY ARE THERE SO MANY FISH ON TINDER?

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    "I seriously don't care that you can catch a fish. What's the deal with that?"

    —Jacqueline Sparks-Davila, Facebook

    10. Sending rude messages if we don't respond right away. We have a life outside of Tinder — chances are, we aren't ignoring you.

    11. Sounding bitter AF in your profile before we even talk to you.

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    "I hate when profiles say, 'Swipe left if you act like a bitch/princess/are here for my cash/want me to drive you around.' Like, DAMN. Salty much?"

    —Wasagabi

    12. Having horrible grammar. If you're really interested, put in that extra effort.

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    "I can understand making a few mistakes, but when it's constant, it looks lazy."

    —Anna Barnett, Facebook

    13. Asking us for our Snapchat name or immediately giving us yours.

    FOX

    "It's worse than asking for a phone number, because you know he's only interested in asking for risqué pictures...or worse — sending them."

    —Julia Rose Katlin, Facebook

    14. Making creepy-ass comments.

    15. Showing off your weapons.

    Pepsi Co.

    "I'm not posting pictures of me with my gun, so why are you doing it to me and the rest of Tinder?"

    —Barbara Hernandez, Facebook

    16. And your cars. Please, stop with the cars.

    YouTube

    "Why do some people have more pictures of cars than themselves? Are you a Transformer?"

    —allyw4

    17. Being bossy and telling us we "have to meet certain qualifications before swiping right." It's lame.

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    "I just laugh when I see bios that say things like, 'And if you don't like kids and Usher cologne, then you can swipe left!' Calm down, it's just Tinder."

    —anotherb

    18. Asking for sexual favors.

    19. Or having a profile solely to find a third person for your threesome.

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    "Does that actually ever work for them? Do their girlfriends know?"

    —Kaleigh Kristeen, Facebook

    20. Saying in your profile that you're too good for Tinder.

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    "Why are you here, then?!"

    —alexism

    21. And maybe the most annoying thing: not sending a message at all when we are a match. :(

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    "What's the point if you're not going to say anything?"

    —kayewriteswebsite

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