18 Harsh Truths About Friendship No One Ever Tells You

    Friends for... nowish.

    1. Friendships are like plants: some require constant maintenance, some need to be watered once in a long while.

    2. It's OK to not have a "squad."

    3. Deep friendships all started with small talk.

    4. At some point, you will feel left out.

    5. You will wonder whether you don't form friendships as close or as strong as other people's.

    6. But the truth is, some people have friends who become more like family...

    7. ...and some have friends whom they simply hang out with for fun.

    8. While some people are perfectly happy on their own.

    9. Putting out bad vibes attracts bad friends.

    10. You will outgrow some friends.

    11. Similarly, some friends will outgrow you.

    12. You'll learn that you won't need the same KIND of friendships throughout your life.

    13. And when it's more of a deep crack than a slow fade, a friend breakup will hurt just as deeply as romantic ones.

    14. There is romance in friendship, too.

    15. You might have different groups of friends, and they might not get along.

    16. It's natural to drift away from your friends when you start dating someone new.

    17. You are more likely to find your people as you get older.

    18. It's important to be your own best friend.