You want her to want to kiss you again. Make it a kiss that leaves her wanting more. If you stick your tongue in her mouth immediately, what are your plans for the next date?
Take your time, open your eyes and use your lips.
2. Second kiss--Rattle Me Bones
This is the kiss that'll let her know what kind of lover you are. Maybe you were nervous the first time. This time, make her knees buckle. Start slow, like the first time but work the tongue in eventually. Close your eyes and she'll think you really mean it.