This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Mar 2, 201511 Of The Worst Things You Can Say To Someone Struggling With Infertility"Are you sure you're doing right?" — Your momby Jane Hollier BrownCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. “Are you pregnant yet?” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. “Maybe having children is not in God’s plan for you.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. “Just be patient.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. “Have you tried the fertility diet?” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. “At least you still get to sleep in on weekends!” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. “Everything happens for a reason.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. “Why don’t you just adopt?” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. “I got pregnant my very first cycle off the pill.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. “Even though you miscarried, at least you know you can get pregnant.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. “You just must be too stressed.” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 11. “Well at least you can have fun trying!” Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF So what should you do? Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF