This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Nov 15, 2013Lessons I've Learned From Reading ChickLit And Teen FicKernels of wisdom inspired by Wattpad stories.by wattpadCommunity Brand PublisherLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Normal is boring. 2. Love doesn't always make sense. 3. Let the heavy things go. 4. Pull yourself together. 5. Go for what (or who) you want. 6. Accept the pain and carry on. 7. Take control of your destiny.