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    23 Things Black Gay Men Are Tired Of Hearing

    "You're really sweet. I'm just not into black guys."

    1. "Gay is the new black!"

    2. "Black folks are so homophobic."

    3. “So, you don’t look like a bottom.”

    4. "I'm not into black men."

    5. When a black guy says "I'm not into black men."

    6. But when a white guy says, "I'm only into black men."

    7. "The only gay divas out there are Cher, Madonna, Gaga and Britney."

    8. "You never heard of Morrissey?"

    9. "Most black guys are on the DL and killing our black women!"

    10. "Are you on the DL?"

    11. "You’re versatile, really?"

    12. "Are you, like, a gay thug?"

    13. "Can you teach me how to dance?"

    14. "It’s just a preference, I’m not racist!"

    15. Dance/Techno/EDM music in every gay club.

    16. The 765 times the word "shade" is misused.

    17. "Madonna created Voguing."

    18. “I know YOU love Beyoncé, right?”

    19. Any question that marks you as the spokesperson for the black community.

    20. "Why do you need a Black Gay Pride?"

    21. "Many white viewers want the fantasy of submitting to a tough street thug." — Gay porn producers

    22. "You're destroying the Black family unit."

    23. "You have a homosexual demon in you."