1. When people say that you're getting older and you should probably get married and have kids ASAP.
2. And when someone tries to tell you how you should live your life in general.
3. When your paycheck is finally here, and you know you have wine money.
4. But then you remember all the bills you have to pay.
5. When you start to feel exhausted from all the responsibilities that come along with existence.
6. When everything is going wrong, and your BFF appears with these amazing five words:
7. When someone starts to talk about your uterus, your ovaries, and your biological clock.
8. When your ex is drunk and they try to win you back.
9. When you're at a family gathering and your aunt is being mean to you, so you clap back mercilessly.
10. When wild fuckboys appear on Tinder and IRL.
11. And when you get the occasional unsolicited dick pic.
12. When you said that you don't want to get married, and that you don't want to have kids either, but everyone tries to make you change your mind.
13. When you gain a little weight and someone says, "It's OK, you're not twenty anymore."
14. You start to sort out your priorities.
15. When someone says they can't look at you knowing you're wasting your time and your life.
16. When someone wants to know what you're doing with your life.
17. When your mom wants you to meet someone because she thinks you're sad and all alone.
18. When you're almost thirty and realize that your life isn't what you thought it would be, and you don't feel like an adult AT ALL.
19. And finally, when you remember that it's your life and that it's none of their business.
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