This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Jul 6, 201612 Things Only People Who Grew Up Bi Will UnderstandThe moon has phases, not my sexuality.by VikkyCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Double standards part I. angel loves pickles⥠@abstractangel "You never had a gf, how do u know u like girls?" Never had a bf either but when I said I liked guys, everyone accepted it ð #growingupbi 08:07 AM - 03 Jul 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 2. This cruel dilemma. Josh @videostark #growingupbi seeing a hot straight couple and not knowing which one you want more 06:16 AM - 03 Jul 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Double Standards part II. The Random Wookie @RandomWookie #growingupbi Seeing bi women on movies and tv but still can't see any bi men cause of outdated ideas of masculinity love Bi erasure 04:49 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 4. Being able to relate to every song. âµâ¬yΩâ¡hÑaâµ @NSN_Cynthia #GrowingUpBi being able to relate to every single love song no matter the pronouns used :) 08:39 PM - 27 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 5. This sad truth. amanda @FlutteryFranta #GrowingUpBi not feeling like you really belong in either community bc you're not gay enough but you're also not straight enough. 05:43 AM - 03 Jul 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 6. When you have to deal with people who think they know you better than you know yourself. lauryn @FIREPROOFGRANDE "but if you HAD to choose" #growingupbi 11:16 PM - 02 Jul 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 7. People who don't understand that being bi doesn't mean that you're poly. ariel @arielisaturtle "So... A threesome? ð" #GrowingUpBi 12:54 PM - 08 May 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 8. When you discretly dropped hints about your sexuality. Ineng @Sharemanlang I love D and P What no its not Dan and Phil It's Dick and Pussy But yeah they're pretty cool too #growingupbi 03:00 AM - 28 Oct 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 9. Hearing all the time that your sexuality is just "a phase". *BI Belieber* @taylorvandenbe4 #GrowingUpBi having your family tell you that you're just confused and that it's just a phase 03:58 AM - 11 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 10. Realizing that dating apps make it even harder to find someone. B Barb. @Barbadelic When you're on Tinder and there's an attractive girl in the pic but also an attractive guy and you get excited. #GrowingUpBi 08:26 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 11. People assume you are spoilt for choice. the wild shermanator @faeriesandfoxes #GrowingUpBi everyone expects you to get double the action, yet you're really just sitting there like 08:23 PM - 21 Sep 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 12. You became very sly at hiding the truth, especially in school. skeletal ryan @allkilIer #GrowingUpBi having pictures of celebrity crushes of the same gender on ur middle school binder & using the "role model" excuse 07:08 AM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Did you know you can sign up for a BuzzFeed Community account and create your own BuzzFeed posts? Get started here!