Actually very forgiving...although have been called vindictive. Don't like confrontation, but when necessary will call someone out in public or slap them! Don't like people messing with my family, especially my husband! Will fight for them to the end. Not someone to take lightly. But if you are a true friend will go to the ends of the earth for you! You want me for you not against! Some people just don't get it till it's too late...I wasn't kidding!