If you've ever gone through a messy breakup you know how much it hurts.
You loved this person, you planned a future with them, and then you had to deal with not being with them. You had to deal with being single and heartbroken.
And yes it hurt, like it really hurt, but you eventually got over it. And it might have taken you a while but you are now ok.
SO, how did you do it, how did you get over a broken heart? And what advice would you give anyone going through it?
We want to know what advice you have for anyone who is going through a messy break up. What do you wish people told you when you were heart broken? And how did you get over it? Share with us in the comments below and you could be featured in a BuzzFeed Community post.