14 Things Married People Want Single People To Know Before They Commit
If you’re thinking about getting married, you have need to know these things. Maybe you come from similar backgrounds and experiences, or maybe you’ve connected in other ways. The experiences you share in your relationship will serve as the foundation for your marriage, and they can keep you connected and strong in the spaces where you don’t have things in common.
1) Don’t think getting married will ‘fix’ everything.”
2) If you two have resolved an issue, let it lie. Don’t keep bringing it up passive aggressively.
3) Friendship is without any boundation is the biggest part of any relationship but especially marriage.
4) Don’t be intimidated by the changes that your spouse or your relationship will eventually take on.
5) Get over the idea that everything is supposed to be 100/100. And stops describe the resemblances with what you’ve done vs. what they’ve done.
6) Keep the romance alive. Tell them how much you love them whenever you can. Stay affectionate and playful.
7) When you need to have a serious talk about something, so do it in a space you both can feel safe and can communicate openly.
8) Don’t sweat the small stuff!
9) Accept the fact if your husband is going to find someone attractive! And accept the fact you’re also going to find someone attractive! People get crushes. They flirt.
10) Only marry someone if you can accept the entire package of what comes with their life- their career, their family, their habits, their hobbies.
11) You have to be able to be there with your partner in both the good and bad times.
12) Avoid lying altogether. It’s not worth it – ever
13) Figure out what your bottom line is before getting into a relationship with someone.
