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Everyone has a unique way of attaching to and communicating with their partner.

For Your Future Reference, This Is The Relationship Attachment Style You Truly Have

What Is Your Relationship Attachment Style? Quiz

Let's Find Out Which Relationship Attachment Style You 100% Have

How would you describe your relationship with yourself?

How do you view your current or potential partner?

How would you handle conflict with a partner?

What are your thoughts on boundaries in a relationship?

How do you feel when the test of trust come up in your relationship?

How do you communicate with your partner?

On the daily, how do you want a partner to reassure you?

How willing are you to share your emotions with a partner?

And do you need a relationship for security?

You have a secure attachment style. Talk about a power partnership! You are very self-aware and have a strong sense for yourself and your partner. You value trust and clear communication, and because of this, you create clear boundaries in a relationship and follow them. You support your partner through all the good, bad, and ugly, and can expect the same back from them. When conflict arises, you can clearly communicate the problem and offer insightful solutions to resolve the fight.

Secure Attachment

You have an anxious attachment style. You long to be loved, but sometimes you get in your own way. You think very highly of your partner and absolutely adore them. But because of your negative self-view, you count on others for constant validation and on them to value your self-worth. You have lots of love to give and you're a great partner, but you need to love yourself more! Your biggest fear is abandonment.

Anxious Attachment

You have a dismissive-avoidant attachment style! You are strong and independent, and you don’t need anyone! Sometimes you may think that you are perfect and no partner could measure up. Even if a partner was on your level, it is hard for you to open your heart to show your most vulnerable emotions. Commitment is hard for you, because you are constantly wondering if there is someone better out there. Try to let down your guard and embrace intimacy!

Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment

You have a fearful-avoidant attachment style! First of all, you deserve love from both a partner and yourself! Sometimes it is hard for you to think you deserve intimacy and even harder to imagine there is someone out there to give it to you. Your fear of rejection causes some trauma when opening up to new people and it gives you a hard time when trying to trust a partner. You are a superstar and deserve love — open your heart and a positive attachment style will come your way.

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Fearful-Avoidant Attachment

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For Your Future Reference, This Is The Relationship Attachment Style You Truly Have

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