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    21 Things That Will 100% Happen When You Move In With Your S.O.

    You'll bond over a lost Allen key.

    1. When you first move in, you'll bond over making flat pack furniture together.

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    Nothing bonds a couple like losing and relocating an Allen key.

    2. And pretty soon, you'll get used to spending 90% of your time together in pyjamas.

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    Looking hot when you're together becomes unsustainable when you live together.

    3. Literally everything will become an in-joke.

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    You will start speaking in your own weird language that would make sense to no one else in the world.

    4. At first, you'll have petty fights about the housework.


    You'll always make up again afterwards, but you will squabble like children.

    5. But eventually you'll get into a routine.

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    You'll have set jobs that you always do and your fights will end.

    6. And sometimes one of you will spontaneously do the laundry and it'll feel like the most romantic gesture ever.

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    It's all about the small things.

    7. You'll start to care waaaay less about how you look in fron tof your S.O.

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    They'll see you at your absolute worst, so there's no point in hiding your true inner troll anymore.

    8. You'll see each other in every single drunk mood possible.

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    You'll see you S.O. when they're mischievous drunk, hungry drunk, emotional drunk, fighty drunk... basically, every kind of drunk.

    9. And pretty soon, you will learn their most shameful obsessions.


    For example, I watch TOWIE twice a week, every week, without fail. And sometimes I watch repeats of old TOWIE episodes on top of that.

    10. You'll learn how to make boring tasks seem fun.

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    You'll work out how to make going to Asda on a Saturday morning reasonably exciting.

    11. You'll message each other all day about what you're going to have for dinner.

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    You can plan a meal for 24 hours and then eat it in five minutes.

    12. And over dinner, you'll discuss exactly what you had for lunch.

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    And you'll get jealous if your S.O. had a more tasty lunch than you.

    13. You'll get really used to them being there at the end of the day.


    It's cosy.

    14. And you'll get so used to being with them that you'll hate it when you have to spend the night alone.

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    You'll get weirdly frightened that someone is going to break into your home.

    15. But you'll also go through busy phases of your life where you hardly see each other in daylight, despite literally living together.

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    And that's OK too.

    16. You'll start sharing some items of clothing, or you'll just straight up steal their jumpers.


    You'll start to forget who owns what.

    17. You'll develop an efficient morning routine.

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    They'll shower while you make the bed, then you'll make breakfast as they get changed.

    18. Sometimes, you'll sack off fun plans with your friends to drink wine, eat a Chinese takeaway, and watch Netflix on your sofa together.

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    And that's absolutely fine.

    19. On these nights, you'll learn how much the other person can truly eat.


    Sometimes you'll have to have a lie down after a particularly large meal.

    20. There'll be certain TV shows that you're not allowed to watch without each other.

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    And if your S.O. watches ahead, you'll fight for days.

    21. But most importantly of all, you'll become best friends.


    And you know that's how it's always going to be.

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