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    Lena Dunham Accused Odell Beckham Jr. Of Not Paying Attention To Her And Things Got Messy

    A white feminist woman accuses a black man of not objectifying her (?!??)

    Lena Dunham's newsletter Lenny published an interview with her and Amy Schumer about their time at the Met Gala:

    Lena Dunham attaching these thoughts to Odell Beckham Jr. when he didn't say anything and wasn't rude is baffling

    Via Twitter: @danideahl

    In it, she accused Odell Beckham Jr. of scrolling through Instagram instead of talking to her or thinking of her as a sexual object.

    People were confused and needed clarification:

    To be clear, Lena Dunham, a woman who fights against the objectification of women, is upset that she wasn't a victim of objectification. Oh.

    Via Twitter: @OMGkee


    Others started questioning the definition of Feminism:

    The power that Lena Dunham wields in shaming people for not finding her attractive is seriously the weirdest Feminist thing yet

    Via Twitter: @AmyOtto8

    But mostly, people were just surprised that this whole thing came from a silent conversation:

    Lena Dunham is feeling victimized about an imaginary conversation she had in her head with a man who was simply minding his own business.

    Via Twitter: @aharbo

    In Dunham's head:

    Lena Dunham just really tried to slam Odell Beckham jr. Over a conversation she had with herself in her head 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    Via Twitter: @MrAnthonyMorrow

    Someone pointed out the hypocrisy:

    lena dunham is tht chick who is mean to all the girls at a party cause she doesnt know them but runs a "end girl on girl hate" graphic blog

    Via Twitter: @lilpochaco

    Maybe Lena should focus less on blaming Beckham Jr. for his non-response?

    Is it possible that Lena Dunham is so fascinated by Lena Dunham that she cannot fathom anyone who may not also be fascinated by Lena Dunham

    Via Twitter: @ErinEph

    Who would've known everyone would turn on her for this?

    RT if you also wouldn't talk to Lena Dunham if she sat next to you

    Via Twitter: @yoMallory

    Accusing a man for NOT sexualizing her:

    Lena Dunham I'mma let you finish and really Girls is a great show that I love, but please stop thinking of Black men in only sexual terms.

    Via Twitter: @samsanders

    This is all very confusing:

    In the Lena Dunham School of Male Etiquette, if you hit on a woman you're a rapist, but if you don't you're a sexist. Any questions?

    Via Twitter: @MattWalshBlog

    Probably how it happened:

    Odell Beckham Jr: *Sits down and exists quietly* Lena Dunham:

    Via Twitter: @theori

    Someone even took the time to write out a script for the exchange:

    What if Odell Beckham had engaged Lena Dunham in conversation?

    Via Twitter: @davelozo

    Which one are we supposed to believe?

    Lena Dunham yesterday: "I'm a feminist! Stop objectifying women!" Lena Dunham today: "Odell Beckham is a sexist! He didn't objectify me!"

    Via Twitter: @JxhnBinder

    She then attempted to clarify her comments by tweeting:

    .@OBJ_3 is talented, stylish, seems super awesome and wasn't into chatting with me at a fancy party.

    Via Twitter: @lenadunham

    My story about him was clearly (to me) about my own insecurities as an average-bodied woman at a table of supermodels & athletes.

    Via Twitter: @lenadunham

    It's not an assumption about who he is or an expectation of sexual attention. It's my sense of humor, which has kept me alive for 30 years.

    Via Twitter: @lenadunham

    Glad the outrage machine roars on though, right @amyschumer?

    Via Twitter: @lenadunham

    ps I'll try and dance myself onto @michaelb4jordan if I have the chance, even when I'm a married grandma. I'm a red blooded str8 woman!

    Via Twitter: @lenadunham

    In the end, people were questioning the definition of feminism and who can be considered icons. Is there such thing as bad feminism? These conversations are important.

    Man I really wish we could let go of this idea that women like Amy Schumer, Lena Dunham, and Jennifer Lawrence are "feminist icons"

    Via Twitter: @eiffeltyler

    Update: Dunham apologizes