Videos·Posted on Nov 17, 2017I Hired A Love Coach Because I Was Tired Of Dating Shitty GuysSometimes you have to take things to the next level.by by selormkploanyiBuzzFeed Motion Pictures Staff, by Alicia BarronBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink Being single had become part of Selorm's identity. And she was over it. Facebook Sure she's tried the whole online dating thing. But it can get a bit ... weird. So she hired a (distractingly hot) love life strategist! Yes, that's a thing. BuzzFeed She enlisted the help from the world’s leading dating advice expert Matthew Hussey. His name was the first on google. Yes, it was that easy. Watch what happened! View this video on YouTube Boldly / Via youtube.com Cool, but what makes Matthew "certified" in being a love coach? youtube.com Matthew Hussey is a Love Life Strategist that is well known for his viral YouTube dating advice videos and his New York Times Best-Selling book "How To Get The Guy." So his credentials are PRETTY top-notch! The Love Coach dished out four challenges that would help her with guys and her confidence! BuzzFeed He says "There are too many single people out there who are not happy being single". So he gave Selorm some challenges to improve her love life and her confidence at the same time. First things first: Selorm needed to start an actual conversation with a guy! BuzzFeed Selorm's first task was to ask a cute stranger for a favor. She asked a guy in a coffee shop if he would recommend the newspaper he was reading and the convo went on from there. Check! Next Selorm had to initiate PHYSICAL contact in the first 60 seconds. Spoiler Alert: It was awkward. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF BuzzFeed Matthew says guys tend to feel more comfortable if you initiate physical contact. That way, if you're on a date and feeling it, it's not so weird to go in for that kiss at the end of the first date. Next lesson. Are you familiar with the 2-hit theory? It was Selorm's favorite challenge. BuzzFeed It's a little tactic Matthew taught her where you casually make a connection with someone and then walk away.Ya know? Pique their interest and leave them wanting more. It worked! Only thing was...the hot guy was gay. Solid effort, Selorm! BuzzFeed Hey, at least she's got the technique down pat. Which brings us to our last love coach challenge? Host a Happy Hour. BuzzFeed Selorm hosted a chill happy hour where everyone got to cut loose, enjoy some "dranks" and get to know each other. Selorm ended the party with some new love interests!!! Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF BuzzFeed "We should exchange numbers?" Just DO IT. Get out of your comfort zone! BuzzFeed That's the only way you'll get to know someone and possibly make a connection. It's worth a shot. Hey, you're following the love coach's orders.